Knowledge is one of the most attractive things we can have.
Sometimes knowledge comes in the form of what we know, other times in the form of things we can do and skills we have.
We live in a world where it’s become more necessary than ever to have eclectic knowledge and diverse skillsets.
Men are running out of ways to feel special
It’s not enough that we make money or have status, because women today already have these things.
We have to work a little harder to be interesting
We cannot afford NOT to be a Renaissance man or woman with a variety of skillsets, art forms and knowledge bases.
Knowledge and skill is a good look on anyone – as is curiosity which inevitably leads us to these things.
And attraction is sustained for longer periods of time when you’re able to keep surprising your partner.
Challenge:
Go and learn about or study something that you have no real need for. Just do something new.
When you’ve decided, leave a comment about the thing you’ve picked. Then come back and leave another at the end of the week to let me know how you’ve gotten on! Do you feel more interesting? Do you have a story because of it?
Be sure to let me know as you’ll be giving me ideas for what I can go on to do next myself!
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Hi Matt
I completely love watching your video feeds :-), the open way in which you interact, It’s so amazing to watch.
thank you for the valuable information.
My new:
I’ve recently taken up yoga and in broadening this aspect of my life I’ve also taken up a curiosity for personal growth. I read/listen to and write about all things to do with growing as a person for myself and in order to share this with the people in my life. It’s amazing how big a difference something so seemingly small as reading someone else’s opinion on “the laws of attraction” can make to your life. My thoughts, actions and words have all been stretched outside of my “comfort” zone and I love it.
It does not mean I agree with everything being said, but that I can see things from a different perspective, gives me insight into how people react to situations, why they react that way and how I can maybe “mold” my interaction to strengthen or better my relationship with them.
Your post on real vs ideal – wow, inspiring.
Lee
I’m working in aPrimary school I learned how to make cat cradle and hammock in order to teach the children.
Thanks
I need to wish my crush happy birthday. We’re both at uni. He has no idea I like him yet. And we get along but we’re not REALLY close.
What’s a fun, sweet but slightly flirty message I could text/facebook him with? :)
Thank you!
I learn how to speak french , like 40 percent I’m not fluent but I’m getting their , I know how to play the guitar , I know how to say hi in 8 languages, and I writes poems and paint , too bad most guys don’t really care about these but its good accomplishments I think , and yeah you are right Matthew good topics of conversation .
Tonight a new friend offered to teach me how to surf. I declined due to my fear of sharks lol. Then I randomly came across this video and I decided to say yes. Eek!!
If I get eaten by a shark I’m totally blaming you ;)
Ok, Matt I have a VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION!!!
I need your help understanding why men sometimes stop wanting to be sexual intimate with their partner and what to do?
Hi Matt,
Just wanted to give you a compliment on your knowledge and wisdom, I catch myself listening to the advice you give..sounds like you definitely know your stuff, My question is how did you come about being a relationship coach? What happened to you that got you on this road and how long have you been studying this behavior in men and women? Jane
Hi Matt,
I’m learning French and getting pretty good at it
I’m learning the editing process and production process of my job
Jamie
Hi Matthew,
i can’t stop smiling because of your British accent even when you’re speaking that other language that i don’t know :-) It’s cute.
I’ve been learning new skills for some time just for fun now and i gain so much respect for those who do it for a living due to how complex it is or how much focus it requires, and i get to tell them whenever i meet them.
That’s an addition benefit to knowing new things, you get to have this respect and compliments for many people you may meet. :-)
Knowledge is sexy. I agree with you Matthew. Ancient Egypt and the reformation! you’re such a geek Matthew. Hahaaa. Being a more unique and compelling person is super attractive. Suprising your partner with new knowledge and continually growing/expanding is a great advice piece. Nice, succinct message : )
Thanks for assuring me in my desire for knowledge and my curiosity. I started to feel bad about it, because I always experienced that other people feel bad and sometimes almost a little bit stupid by my knowledge. And I never intended to boast with my knowledge or speaking many languages. I just replied honest to their questions. How can I be honest (not pretend I’d be stupid) without making other people feel less skilled or smart?
Hi Matt!
Decided I would look into some diseases for example the XXY syndrome and the XXYY syndrome. I also started learning Finnish and Japanese again.
Such a great idea!
Hi Matt,
I used some of your texts on my handsome best friend and he didn’t say anything. I asked him if it made him uncomfortable and he was silent then he changed the subject. Then a few days after he. told me he was getting naked and likes to be nude. I didn’t know if that meant he was trying to be sexy or if he was just telling me that. So I didn’t know how to react so I just said oh. Then he got pissed off about something. I’m hopeless at this! Help! Am I reading too much into it? I tried to change the dynamic of our relationship. Help!
Hi Matthew. I’ve discovered your videos not so long ago and I can’t wait to try your techniques on “how to approach a guy” ! By the way, i really loved when you started speaking Mandarin. 還說的不錯喔！ 利害！下次歡迎來台灣分享你的男／女關係的想法喔。 Can you read that ? It partially answers the question at the end of your video “how to be sexier and smarter at the same time”
When you watch videos of Matthew cause of your guy but you end up loving Matt instead =/
You are so beautiful inside out
jajaja. i also feel tje same way. he makes me think there out there in the world more beutiful interesting people that the one i thought was the only man perfect in this world.Matt thank u for giving us hope there guys like you in the world. love u
Hey Matt,
First I wanted to say i really enjoy watching your videos and honestly I have applied most of them repeatedly until getting right and it’s magical! I have a lot of guy friends i hang out with so i also have a perspective on how a guy thinks. Theres just one thing i wanted to mention.. these days guys in their twenties read a lot about “how to play the game by Neil strauss etc”. And i have read it and put to practice as well because my guy friends would too. I found it so useful to combine the knowledge of that book and yours as well as some psychological facts! In two years i helped so many guys get the girl and vice-versa and it never failed. It is amazing. Anyways i thought that it would be interesting if you spoke about how a woman can get a man just by learning how to create the right atmosphere for him to openup to her to such a level of trust that he develops a need for her to be part of his daily life so thathe cconstantly needs to share with her. If a woman learns how to make him associate comfort,happy memories and trust with her presence she would definitely get the man. I really hope to hear your thoughts on this!
Maria
Hey Matt,
Found your videos through you tube when I was at a difficult and experiencing the what you called “what a s*ck feeling” Then just to relate with this video I decided I will do research on how to understand people more and connect with them.So I finished 1 book. New knowledge is great keeps us empowered.
Thank you for being Genuine and unique. Wish you more success and hope you have more funny 50 shades of earl grey videos.
Cheers,
Nikki
Hey! I’m gonna be learning how to break dance! And I’m learning piano as a total beginner.
My partner very grounded with his career and plans to be a millionaire in 2 years, which I have no doubts and he’s all about making his environment work for him and not wasting time on small things. But where he can be boring I make up enough adventure for the both of us :P
hey matthew , im 18 and i have always been single … up until resently i thought it was because i just didnt like the guys that have shown interest on me but a few weeks back a guy that i actually liked and has been a friend of mine for a while , asked me out via text and i just couldnt say yes … Also i have noticed that i like guys that are usually out of my limit and i just cant seem to get the ones i like .. on a resent talk that i had with one of my closest friends she told me that im generally diffensive,sarcastic and sometimes very shy around boys that i dont know that well or i like… its like im putting up a wall or something … my generally sarcastic nature and fun side almost turns bitchy and i sound like a smart ass :P please give me some tips to help me be more comfortable around men.. thank you for your time :D
Hello Matthew! My name is Genesis, and I’m from Venezuela.
Last week I found your youtube channel and I just love it, I’ve watch a lot of the videos you have, I love the “Love the journey”.
I saw this video a few minutes ago, and I want to share my opinion with you.
I live in a Latin-American country, that is known to be a country with beautiful women. But actually we are more than just beautiful, we are smart, sexy and confident and the problem today here is, that guys are behing, guys are in a way are intimidate by us, Venezuelan girls are literally running the country, because every day we want to know more, we want to be more than jus a beutiful girl, we want to be more for ourself, our family and to “get the right guy”, that guy that is as smart as us, that has a fantastic job, that has a car, a house, that is independent.
The result of that is the amount of venezuelan girls who are single, because this guys are not at their level, because they don’t know how to be with us.
I belive this is because they don’t know how to handle the fact that we don’t want just to stay at home and be the housewife they want.
Now I have this question: What can we do when are sexier and smarter at the same time?
I will love to have and answer, thanks for everything.
kisses and a big hug ;)