Matthew was again invited back to talk over at the BBC, this time on BBC London Radio about why women just aren’t getting the guys they want. It seems women are falling into the same patterns and traps that have crippled their success with men and dating.
What you shouldn’t do is settle for less, not only does this prevent you from meeting guys that you ACTUALLY want, it pushes you into “fake relationship” that can only end one way.
Here’s some of what’s covered in the interview:
- Why the internet is harming our social lives
- The things your friends SHOULD be telling you but don’t
- Why men are not calling you back after the first date
- Why our seminars work
- How to be a “high value” woman
Listen to it now:
[audio:http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/site/wp-content/audio/talks/bbc-london-radio-interview.mp3]We’d love to hear your views on the interview and any questions you may have, so make sure you comment below…
What a great audio clip. I’m in my forties and from my unfortunate experiences with men have found myself in the past, synical. But now that is in the past since I’ve been reading, listening to your weekly emails and I’m doing the “Secrets of Attraction” programme too.
Thank you so much Matthew. I feel a sense of emotional intelligence now and that there’s a future of a loving relationship ahead for me.
Sincerely,
Shelley
To ad to my last comment. I’d like to thank the team as well of “How to get the guy” too.
Sincerely,
Shelley
Hoo Matt, you’re smart as ever, but slow down about the part with the 20-years-old – we too are doing our very best each day (;
Your work is brilliant, keep it up – the only thing that surprised and kind of annoyed me was the big deal about the “Keep the guy” secret the last few days… I think it is sub-dividing your supporters where we’re all in the same boat afterall.
Nevertheless, keep floating! Best wishes from Germany, VS
I’m not sure what’s happening but theres no way i can listen to this….I have Adobe Flash Player but still can’t view or listen to this on my Android Phone.
great interview, would love you to come up north, I live in Staffordshire, the show ticket is a good price but stopping over night in London can make it an expensive trip x
Would have liked to hear more of what you had to say, unfortunately, the interviewer was a bit full of herself (went a full minute without even hearing your voice). Although it’s encouraging to know younger men appreciate vivacious older women, my experiences with them left me sort of jaded. Even younger women complain about them for the same reason: they’re only looking for “fun” and not serious about commitment. I’d date men my own age, but I’ve found they’re either spoken for, not the kind of man you’d want to be with, unattractive or looking for younger women.
I do plan to socialize more with my coworker. We’re both single moms in our early 40’s. We’ve had our share of disappointments but that doesn’t mean we don’t know how to seize the day! Keep up the great work and I always look forward to your next video or blog.
I love what you people are doing. Keep it up. It’s good.
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Great interview. I love the consistent answers you give.
Awesome interview, I need the “what am I doing wrong” coaching because I can not seem to get past the first date or meet and great
I cannot access these audios – please post on YouTube.
I agree with everything Matt has said about guys wanting younger women because of the associations of being youthful, vibrant etc..that is all true. He’s mentioned everything except one big thing. Men wants women that are younger looking. An older woman cannot compete in that category, e.g. say an older woman with wrinkles compared to a younger girl who is fresh faced and has tight taut skin.
I cannot access these audios – please post on YouTube Thanks for always awesome work;)
Fantastic article! I appreciate how clearly you explained the topic. Your insights are both informative and thought-provoking. I’m curious about your thoughts on the future implications of this. How do you see this evolving over time? Looking forward to more discussions and perspectives from others. Thanks for sharing!