Sometimes a guy is being nice to you, but you’re still left wondering, “Does he like me?” or is this going to be a friendly-buddy thing.
He’ll be talking and connecting with you on your common interests, but you’re not sure whether he’s attracted, and you don’t want to risk rejection if you’ve read the signs wrong.
There is a big difference between a guy being a ‘nice’ guy and a guy being attracted to you.
It’s often the case that a nice guy will talk to you, but have no intention of making a move or getting your phone number.
So if you find yourself always struggling with how to tell if he likes you (in a “I-cant-wait-to-kiss-her” kind fo way), here are some easy ways to know if he’s serious or if he sees you as a friend.
1. He Comes Looking for You
Maybe you’re talking at a social gathering, and you get split up for a ten minutes to chat with your respective friends.
If he likes you, he’s going to come looking for you at a certain point and try to re-engage your attention, either with a comment thrown in your direction or just by starting a conversation. If he does this, or seems to keep orbiting around you, it means that he unconsciously wants to be near you and feels attraction.
2. He’ll Dig for Questions to Keep the Conversation Going
One great test of whether a guy likes you is to observe whether he keeps making attempts to pick up the conversation even if it looks like it’s running dry.
He may stumble around as he finds ways to keep asking questions, but it’s a blatant signal that he’s trying to keep you interested in what he has to say.
3. He Drops a Few “Subtle Brags”
No guy can resist trying to show off his best assets when he’s trying to impress a woman.
Hopefully he won’t do something really vulgar like talk about how much money he makes (though sadly some clueless men do just that!). More often, if he’s into you he’ll mention something he achieved recently that he’s proud of, or he’ll tell you about his career plans and how he’s currently living his dream job.
Yes, it might be a bit childish, but that’s kind of how guys are when they first realise they like a woman.
4. He Keeps Finding Your Eyes
If a guy isn’t interested in you romantically, he’ll tend to avoid heavy eye contact.
But if he likes you, he’ll keep finding his eyes drawn to yours and may even appear to be staring deeply into them whenever you’re talking.
What’s more, even if he’s in the other corner of the room and you haven’t even met yet, he’ll be irresistibly drawn to looking over in your direction multiple times. And believe me, you’ll notice him looking over.
(Pro Tip: guys aren’t subtle). If you keep spotting him doing this and can’t find a way to get into conversation, make sure you’re clued up and know how to get him to come and talk to you.
5. He Remembers What You Tell Him
Guys easily become fascinated with everything with you say when they feel that pull of attraction. They remember the tiniest details about where you live, your work, that holiday you’re planning that you told him about.
One of the simplest signs that he likes you is whether he remembers and brings up these little details in subsequent conversations, as it’s a crucial indicator that he’s storing away what you say to try and impress you.
Men are surprisingly attentive with the women whom they want to pursue.
6. He Apologizes if He Gets Interrupted
If his friends suddenly come and starts talking to him when you’re in conversation, he’ll quickly bat them away and start talking to you again, apologizing for breaking your conversation.
Basically, a man who is into you will act like he has all the time in the world to stay in your company.
7. He Easily Makes Time for You (‘Does He Like Me?’…YES!)
When a guy likes you, you’ll be able to tell that he’s fighting to schedule catching up, calling, or going out time with you, even if he happens to be really busy that week.
A man who likes you will subconsciously start prioritizing time to see you, since he won’t want to risk you getting away and forgetting about him.
He’ll also make sure to arrange the next meeting with you and talk about things you could both do together, like seeing a certain movie or trying a particular food place.
8. He Asks About When he’s Going to See You Again
This usually happens after a first conversation, when a guy is already asking what you’re doing after the party, or whether you’ll be at some other upcoming social event.
It’s an obvious sign that he’s making sure he has a way of keeping in touch and guaranteeing another chance to be in your company.
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Now you know the signs, you’ll never be left going home wondering what a guy’s intentions are again.
It won’t always be completely obvious from the moment you meet, but if you notice 3-4 of these signs in regular interactions you’ll know that he’s attracted and you can start to feel comfortable investing in him further.
By the way, one you’re further along the line in a relationship, you’ll definitely want to check out my article on how to tell if a guy is in love with you. Make sure you check it out!
So, was talking to this guy for a month and had great conversation. Then went out and it was this great 5hour date. A few days later, made a date for end of week. Day before he calls me up and tells me he’s been seeing someone else for a little bit and thinks it’s getting more serious and he should probably stop seeing other girls. I was frustrated cuz we really had a ton of fun, had great chemistry and there was definitely attraction there…fit so well and it was just easy between us. I told him it sucks he went out with me in the first place if he was into someone already. He appeared confused and we ended up going on our second date. Another great date. Laughed a lot and built on our physical connection. Since then he’s been “busy” and seems to avoid talking on the phone. I’m kinda hurt and dad that if he’s decided on this other girl that we can’t chat about it. I feel like I’m running a race that Im not sure I’m signed up for anymore. I really just want an answer but don’t wanna be too intense. And I really like him. What to do?
One friend of mine has liked me for almost a year. I didn’t like him at first because he’s not my type and I don’t really find him attractive. I tried to make him know that I’m not interested but apparently I wasn’t making myself obvious and he didn’t quite get the clue. But lately, I’ve been thinking about him a lot, and missing him when he’s not around. I’m not sure if it’s because I only like the way he treats me and cares about me or I have developed real romantic feelings for him. It’s all very confusing to me. Am I really in love with him or it’s just my ego?
So this guy I met with all my good friends I think I have met him before but I’m not sure anyway we have a good time I crack a couple jokes and end up hitting it off and slept together that night…which I never do so it was really different but he kissed me passionately the while time looking into my eyes and he woke up in the morning holding my hand laying his head on me while we hung out and when I left later that day he gave me a tight hug and kissed me asked for my # and has been texting me and calls me beautiful he also had on his FB that he was in a realationship so I asked him and he apologized a lot and told me to remind him because he couldn’t get on the internet atm but I never did and he changed it himself but haven’t hung out since he tells me he will tell me when he’s free..but how do I know if this is him trusly into me or just like this? Is there any thing I can say ?
So there is this guy that I go hang out with at a social event every Wednesday, and he is there. He smiles around me and when I look at him I smile. I do like him. A lot. Him and my brother are best friends. We were talking in a group and I told them I only have one friend. *points to friend* then, he says “I’m your friend” *he winks and points his thumbs at himself*. Later I thank him for what he said. We go to a camp with friends and I’m just getting out of the lake. As I walk back to our cabins by myself, he is walking toward me coming from that direction. I say hi and we talk about school while he walks back to my cabin with me. I then tell him that this is my cabin, I told him i would see him after I cleaned up. He said “alright”.
We were playing a game at camp, and our camp leader came and dragged me out of the game to go to bed. I gave her a sad face, and he was right beside me. He patted my shoulder and I walked off slowly.
We were boarding the bus to go back home. I sat in the back near him. And he told me how my team lost and how much his team was better than mine. I looked at him and made a face (kinda hard to explain) and I kinda made it look like I was sad I guess. So he patted me on my head and I smiled. A couple mins later he had his earplugs in his ears and looked like he was jamming to music. It was a prank. He lifted up the plug (it was supposed to be connected to his phone) and I laughed. He laughed with me. At times we just looked at each other. When we actually was listening to music, I asked him what he was listening to. He told me but I asked if I could see the playlist he made on his phone. “Sure” *he hands over his phone*. I didn’t know any of them. A couple mins later he said “Put this in”. It was one of the earplugs to listen to a song. (the other one was in his ear) we listened to a song and then our shoes touched. He didn’t mind and neither did I. So I didn’t move. Does he like me? What do y’all think?
So there’s this guy I met online, well for hookup purposes so love was out of the question. When we were about to do our thing(online), work interupted him, so I was told two days later when he messaged me. We were gonna continue where we left off but I didn’t have the house to myself. He then offered to have a casual conversation with me and it was great honestly with the faulty connection being the only exception. It got pretty personal, talking about our past and stuff so the fact that we clicked makes it harder to accept that I might lose my ‘me too”, since I can’t really relate with anyone. We continued talking a few days later but it died down slowly. He’d always tell me he’s busy and I mean, it was okay, he seemed pretty honest and he wasn’t obligated to keep talking to me anyway. It puzzled me tho that whenever we didn’t talk and I’d message him, he’d reply almost instantly but he’d almost never initiate. I don’t blame him, I always take a while to respond to him. We have great conversations and he inputs alot but he always opts out of the conversation at some point and I thought maybe that’s his way of not having to start over all the time, which is fine.
I just wish I knew the answers so I don’t have to keep analyzing everything to death. I just hope he never sighs or roll his eyes when he gets my notification because the last thing I want is to seem clingy and obsessive and he’s told me about past experiences with girls like that and they’re pretty crazy. The one I remember is with a girl with whom he spoke and they didn’t text for a while and he messaged her probably a month later and she said “I have a boyfriend” so I guess that stuck with him and he decided to be harder to reach idk but he told me he’s cold and what really stuck with me was “Will I ever find a chick who’ll snap me outta this?” I’m not sure if he’s interested or just bored, lonely or whatever the case is and I’m not sure about that myself. Help anyone? What do you guys think?
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According to this he likes me. But what if those OBVIOUS signs are not applicable for every guy?
And what does “liking” mean? Is fulfilling all criteria a 100% chance?
Just: he remembers what I said that wasn’t even directed toward him.
He’s a busy guy but he effin’ makes time for me which I find weird. Bla
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