Comments on: How to Be Confident When You DON’T FEEL ATTRACTIVE https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/ Have The Love Life You Want Thu, 29 Sep 2022 23:09:06 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: KokTailz https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1174494 Thu, 29 Sep 2022 23:09:06 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1174494 Great content. This is very good article topic “How To Be Confident When You DON’T FEEL ATTRACTIVE”. But I thought You are not a slave to your emotions. You can choose to feel differently anytime. First, take a deep breath and relax. Second, reminding yourself that everyone feels unattractive at times. Third, remind yourself that you are still the same person underneath. Fourth, remind yourself that you have great things going for you. You are intelligent, kind, and compassionate. Finally, remind yourself that you are so much more than your appearance. You are a great example to others and you make a difference in this world. It’s ok to feel unattractive sometimes, but don’t let it dominate you and your life.

]]> By: Eleni https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1174027 Mon, 19 Sep 2022 12:52:32 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1174027 In reply to Deborah.

I am 57. Celebrate your age Maria! It gives me courage. We are coming to where you are
Love
Eleni

]]> By: California Sam https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1174019 Mon, 19 Sep 2022 08:00:24 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1174019 I’ve done two confidence challenges and I am absolutely stoked to get in on a third! This challenge makes so much space for big shifts! Every challenge I take it a little step further towards bigger goals I’ve been either reluctant or make the most excuses for! This has helped me so much to push myself! The things I thought afraid to do are now manageable because I held myself accountable to do them in 30 days consistently! Great accountability for us all! Let’s do this!

]]> By: Jeanne https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1174010 Mon, 19 Sep 2022 01:10:30 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1174010 In reply to Deborah.

Hi Deborah, I’m a few months from being 72! Isn’t Matthew the greatest?!

]]> By: Amanda Brennan https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1174007 Mon, 19 Sep 2022 00:09:45 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1174007 In reply to Rox.

Hi
I am a new listener and have really enjoyed the content and found it very constructive and helpful . This coming from someone who rarely asks for “help “ . My moms thrilled that I listen voluntarily
This however was not my favorite. I noticed that you mentioned things such as physical attributes that most people have no control over and or accept without extreme measures such as plastic surgery ( height not being an option .. can you imagine!). I for one have never really cared about height , nose etc . All about the person !
However, I did notice one thing you didn’t mention and NEVER discuss is weight and how it may effect your dating life .
So begins my story and questions. I will try to sum it up . I’ve been type one diabetic and had hypothyroidism since I was two years old . I was a swimmer growing up , active and tried my best to stay athletic for my health and just like anyone else to look and feel good . I’ve never been thin , but was healthy and felt good with the exception of scaring on my arms from insulin injections over the years . Hoping in my next life I’ll have fab arms that make me feel awesome! Don’t take those strapless dresses for granted ladies ! ( also went to school for fashion , so you know !)
In the past five years for no reason that any medical professionals can figure out I have gained weight uncontrollably. Not only do I look completely different I feel completely different. I’ve literally tried everything and seeked out any help possible. Mental and physical.
Here’s my question. I see the difference in attention/ effort from men . Amazing how drastically it changes( not , our culture is driven by looks ) .
All of this has really made me incredibly insecure in dating and relationships. Many factors to take into account.
So curious what your thoughts are and how to overcome something that honestly our culture does not embrace?
Just to add , I’m a successful women , own two homes , am a great dog mom , friend and love my my family to pieces . Been married ( amazing how that happens when you aren’t having an out of body experience ).
Point being you’re not touching on points that need to be addressed.
Lastly , nothing is wrong with being a curvy woman who doesn’t meet our culture’s standards. However it needs to be recognized .
I currently have “crush”. Would love to get some advice that might make me more confident to make a move . Been a long time !
Thanks , sorry for the lengthy response.
Think you guys are great .. love that we’re “ pickles “
PS I’m also a trained chef so love the analogy!

]]> By: Deborah https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1173995 Sun, 18 Sep 2022 15:56:44 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1173995 ]]> Great metaphor about a chef making the most of ingredients. I love that challenge to see what I can whip up with just stuff I have on hand and without a trip to the store. Making lemons into lemonade! I’m going to see how to apply this concept to my 73 year old self. ❤️

]]> By: Maria Nikolaou https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1173994 Sun, 18 Sep 2022 15:55:59 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1173994 Jope it will help

]]> By: Rox https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-be-confident-when-you-dont-feel-attractive/#comment-1173992 Sun, 18 Sep 2022 14:25:14 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=64101#comment-1173992 Hello, I am on the East Coast of the US and will probably be at work when the session is taking place, buy I would still like to participate. Will the session be recorded and available for those who can’t participate at the time of the live session?

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