Comments on: If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead

By: Vortex Momentum Scam

Vortex Momentum Scam — Wed, 14 Aug 2024 05:49:21 +0000

Hello! I’ve been following your website for a long time now and finally got the
courage to go ahead and give you a shout out from Kingwood Tx!
Just wanted to mention keep up the good job!

By: Melissa

Melissa — Wed, 30 Aug 2023 11:17:06 +0000

In reply to ΣΟΦΙΑ Σιλιογκα. You need to rotational date and absolutely stop sleeping with him. Keep him “in your rotation” allow him to step up or step off. Allow other men to step up or step off. Then choose the best offer from all the men who want you and say yes to their proposal. Just like in grandmas day!

By: Terri B

Terri B — Wed, 24 May 2023 23:45:05 +0000

Thank you, I met this man, the first man since my husband had passed away. He was single and it was a beautiful relationship, however, an ex partner has come back into his life and we have now separated. This woman has constantly let him down, but I thought I stood a chance. Then I felt really hurt, so I said I didn’t want to be in touch with him any more. I’ve gone through everything that you have said, grieving,not being able to carry out basic tasks, all as you have said. So I’m ready to complete the 30 Challenge with you. Thank you again, found this at the just the right time.

By: Nuncia

Nuncia — Tue, 02 May 2023 21:08:11 +0000

I was in a “friendship” with a guy who occasionally bounced between flirtatious moments great hugs connection comments. But after a get together to a show; he called but not so often and never found time to get together. Very busy with a company merger for more than a year-understandable. I was very patient but I don’t let people treat me that way. If you want to be my friend or have a relationship with me you need to invest too. So I said I have to say goodbye because after many offers to get together you have avoided in person contact.
I miss the connection and the depth of conversations though. Did I do the right thing and will he ever try to reconnect?

By: Diva

Diva — Wed, 12 Apr 2023 00:08:24 +0000

In reply to Lynne Perry.

Lynne, same here! 4 1/2 years , no living together, doesn’t want to get married”yet”. Comes for the weekend. Takes me out for dinner and lunch, eat here too, watch movies, do errands. It’s come up 3 times now and I have the same thoughts. Should I dump him and go live by my family instead of his family that we see twice a month?

And now he’s looking at getting a job somewhere else. We were apart for a year and I’m not doing that again.
My ex husband of 30 years knew he wanted to marry me the week after he met me.
I’m 67 years old, I need to stop sleeping with him. That should bring some clarity to the situation.
He’s says we’ll be together forever, ya right, then put a ring on it!

By: Diva

Diva — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 23:50:51 +0000

In reply to Chris K. You need to read the statistics, married men rarely leave. Also, he doesn’t have to because he has you and he knows it. Stop having sex with him and see how long your affair lasts. That will be a real indicator of his interest in you. And it might speed things along with getting those ducks and the ending of his ma all in a row.

By: Jess

Jess — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 05:14:11 +0000

I had this guy we were happy. There was a chemistry and an in depth communication. But as time goes by, i wanted to have a serious relationship with him although LDR. I set standards, I was so happy. Maybe i set my standards high. I gave time for him to think about our future. Maybe i somehow know that he is not ready. I pressured him. After a week only to find out he is he just wants us to become friends. I tried to talked and not to pressure him. I know this sounds crazy but maybe I somehow chase him. I did my part. But all I got was friendship. I break up with him because its an insult on my part. Like he offered me to go with the flow.. I said i need self respect so he should avoid messaging or calling me so I won’t be confused. Its really sad cause in my heart I thought he is the one for me. He said he wants to focused on his career and he just keep hurting my feelings that is why he just wants me to let go. I wish he will come back to make things right or at least compromise. But how can i do things alone.I want him back like i’m crying every night. Its been 2weeks since we don’t talk communicate. There was twice that he called. Is it right to keep waiting if he’ll change his mind?

By: Em

Em — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 10:13:37 +0000

Thanks, this really hits the spot. It’s invaluable to have ways of reframing (the point about time being precious) and remembering the reality of the situation so we aren’t pulled back into the false hope. I love how you describe something so personal (we all think we are the only ones experiencing being pulled back into a vortex) to show that it’s actually a universal predicament many of us experience.

By: Abrar

Abrar — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 10:04:42 +0000

In reply to Karo. He is with you and not another one because he likes you, but liking you is not enough, and it's not an excuse or enough reason to give up your life and wasting your time. A serious man will not give a space to doubt. I prefer to move on and keep on with your life. Forget him you deserve a better person. And put this in your mind the right one for you will never miss you

By: Abrar

Abrar — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 10:03:29 +0000

In reply to Chris K. He is with you and not another one because he likes you, but liking you is not enough, and it's not an excuse or enough reason to give up your life and wasting your time. A serious man will not give a space to doubt. I prefer to move on and keep on with your life. Forget him you deserve a better person. And put this in your mind the right one for you will never miss you