Comments on: Why He’s Not Giving You the Respect You Deserve

By: Michelle White

Michelle White — Fri, 06 Jan 2023 16:19:46 +0000

OMG, your video about saving I’m sorry all the time described my marriage of 26. I wish I would have heard this 30 years ago.

By: Margot E

Margot E — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 21:04:35 +0000

In reply to Tracey (Lohr) Johnson. I watched and listened to you and will again. This is exactly what I’m going through currently and did let my anxiety lead the way to say sorry. And I’ve been ignored for six days in a (two year relationship). Matthew, this was the very best therapy I have ever had. I’m 66 years old, so I’ve been married… and been around the block a few times. I believe you saved me from a lot of pain and further heart ache. Potentially, saving my life. I cannot thank you enough…

By: Saraswati

Saraswati — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 15:49:10 +0000

This is THE most timely and powerful video I’ve seen from you. In fact, I had the guts to do just what you said last week when I was starting to feel like a doormat and I wasn’t getting my needs met. I shared with my BF how I was feeling (without any blame) and shared what I need and want in a relationship. He turned around and ended the relationship abruptly; cut and ran. Clearly, he doesn’t have the capacity to negotiate or be what I’m looking for. The fallout is deeply painful but it’s showing me a lot about his capacity to hold-space for my feelings. I’m resisting the desire to reach out but per your advice: it’s not HIS move, not mine.

By: Naz

Naz — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 14:00:17 +0000

Thank you so much. I really needed this today, amidst an emotional moment watching your video and listening to what you said helped me snap out of it. I will be re watching and taking notes. I have most most of your programs which have helped me so much already , but it’s my anxiety that keeps getting in the way. Greatful for what you do

By: Bunny

Bunny — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 13:13:45 +0000

One of the best videos of all time!! I just went through this very thing and your video was confirmation I did the right thing. Standing up for my standard, using kindness, has regained the respect I was missing and has set us on a positive track. Thank you Matthew!!

By: Nicola Drake

Nicola Drake — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 19:01:46 +0000

I’ve recently experienced this and your guidance has cemented in my mind that despite it triggering my depression, I did the right thing. I just wish I’d followed the advice earlier and I may not be in this position. I allowed fear for too long.

By: Cheri

Cheri — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 18:18:32 +0000

I was that person. In 2019 was I first came to the live in person retreat. Thru my commitment to apply the retreat content I’ve become different person one aligned with my core values. Thru daily intentional change 1% over 3 years adds up to 1000% . People have had to get to know me again ….even my husband. I am building relationships with new friends that hold standards and live their values with kindness and action.

By: Treena Surratt

Treena Surratt — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 16:39:09 +0000

Wow!! Admittedly I didn’t watch the video first. I started by reading the article silently in my head. Then further in I began reading it out loud because it resonated with me so strongly. Followed by watching the video. Above all, this one was the arrow that hit the bullseye for me.

By: Tracey (Lohr) Johnson

Tracey (Lohr) Johnson — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 14:04:59 +0000

So much wisdom in this short video. Will re-watch before several times before my difficult conversation mission. Thanks, Matthew.