Comments on: 3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating

By: Pam

Pam — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 16:30:22 +0000

Thank you so much for this. I feel like a total disaster at the moment having met someone I really respect and who is single – and having them show no real interest! It is so hard! I really like his opinions on things so to imagine that his opinion of me is negative just kills me. But I will definitely take what you say to heart. Thank you so so much for this and all your many other videos.

By: Florence Stenson

Florence Stenson — Mon, 11 Jul 2022 22:26:35 +0000

I always enjoy your vidoes great tips for me to use

By: Daphne

Daphne — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 20:44:17 +0000

In reply to Miles. Thank you for your words, Miles, and for taking the time. I very much appreciate it. I wish you all the very best in your life.

By: Daphne

Daphne — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 20:42:39 +0000

In reply to Cornelia. Thank you, Cornelia, I appreciate that and I love your motto :-) Take care xo

By: Mary

Mary — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 15:38:25 +0000

I really enjoyed this video. Thank you for the good advice!

By: Sam

Sam — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 02:14:32 +0000

I think rejection can be and has been somewhat of a positive in my life. Rejection has occurred a lot in my life but I always think back to how I respond when a guy friend ends up liking me but I don’t like him back. I care about him and respect him as a friend but I don’t wish to enter a relationship with this person nor do I want to waste his time or lead him on. So I try to look at these situations with compassion. I think, it doesn’t mean they don’t like me at all, they probably care for me just not to the same level as I like them. Once I shift it to where I can relate to the rejection, I don’t ruminate on the WHY they rejected me. They aren’t my person. If I’m too silly or on-the-go too much or have high energy a lot… I’ll find the person who would say “YES” the first time. There will be someone who likes these things about me. But I move on and go back to my hobbies and what adds to my life. This video helps put into steps as a guide to remember to keep my focus on my life and not get over analytical about someone’s choice to reject me.
One of the last guys I tried asking to coffee through an app, side note he’s a coworker, he politely said no thank you and he called me a friend. At first I was like…. nooooooo.. but then I silently said out loud to myself “thank you for the freedom.” I had allowed this guy to lead me on and ghost me for 2 years. Finally built up the courage to just ask him out and when he said no, that’s when I knew enough was enough. I felt, free, and empowered to meet new people.

By: Sam

Sam — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 02:10:15 +0000

One of the last guys I tried asking to coffee through an app, side note he’s a coworker, he politely said no thank you and he called me a friend. At first I was like…. nooooooo.. but then I silently said out loud to myself “thank you for the freedom.” I had allowed this guy to lead me on and ghost me for 2 years. Finally built up the courage to just ask him out and when he said no, that’s when I knew enough was enough. I felt, free, and empowered to meet new people.

By: Cornelia

Cornelia — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 21:56:35 +0000

In reply to Daphne. Daphne, you rock. I did the same thing last August and almost a year later, I couldn’t be more proud of what I’ve done. My motto nowadays is simply: be brave. Keep focusing on the amazing woman you are. Xoxo

By: Tracey

Tracey — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 20:57:10 +0000

Love this, thank you! I feel very proud of myself after hearing and watching the video. I’m an overcomer you see, and of things that some people would not be able to, and yet I can often doubt myself which is completely nuts. Very grateful indeed for the reminder

By: Nika

Nika — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 20:34:49 +0000

Thank you Matthew for this video! It helps me a lot to overcome my fear, struggles and build a healthy self-confidence. I think we are living in a quite superficial society (also depends on the country and its culture) and l needed to put myself together again and again because I attract the “wrong guys”. I will need to come out of my comfort zone and give it a try if I like someone, doesn’t matter the outcome. As the Coldplay song says: if you never try, you never know. Great content again!