Comments on: Why Did They Invest, Then Pull Away?! https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/ Have The Love Life You Want Wed, 31 Jan 2024 06:34:44 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Sondra Smith https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1206170 Wed, 31 Jan 2024 06:34:44 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1206170 ]]> “Be where your feet are!” This says it all. Too often I’m 6 blocks down the street. Because I want to be in a committed relationship so bad. Then when one arrives and I’m happy for a minute and like a few things that transpired between us and sex was great, I’m half way married in my head.
Thank you so much !! You always bring something good to light. I sincerely appreciate you sharing your advice.
Peace, love and light ~
~ Sondra ♥️

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By: Sondra Smith https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1206169 Wed, 31 Jan 2024 06:33:59 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1206169 ]]> “Be where your feet are!” This says it all. Too often I’m 6 blocks down the street. Because I want to be in a committed relationship so bad. Then when one arrives and I’m happy for a minute and like a few things that transpired between us and sex was great, I’m half way married in my head.
So again, what hit home with me is just this, “Be where your feet are.!”
Enough said.
Thank you so much !! You always bring something good to light. I sincerely appreciate you sharing your advice.
Peace, love and light ~
~ Sondra ♥️

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By: Sondra Smith https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1206168 Wed, 31 Jan 2024 06:32:48 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1206168 ]]> “Be where your feet are!” This says it all. Too often I’m 6 blocks down the street. Because I want to be in a committed relationship so bad. Then when one arrives and I’m happy for a minute and like a few things that transpired between us and sex was great, I’m half way married in my head.
So again, what hit home with me is just this, “Be where your feet are.!”
Enough said.
Thank you so much !! You always bring something good to light. I sincerely appreciate you sharing your videos.
Peace, love and light ~
~ Sondra ♥️

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By: BJB https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1205347 Sun, 21 Jan 2024 19:33:06 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1205347 In reply to Teresa Pesce.

Painful truth… you cleverly painted the picture … we need to be aware of how we index our books of life.

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By: Talia Dali https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1205342 Sun, 21 Jan 2024 19:00:13 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1205342 In reply to Lowrey Cain.

Never thought of it this way, but reflecting upon our last discussion that is what actually transpired. But his life, his decision how to go about it and I have my life and my responsibility for my well-being. I sincerely took this as an opportunity to go manifesting everything that it has been on my to do list (big projects) because if I had to conjure up the willingness to deal with the hurt and find my peace again, I can do anything else I inspire to.

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By: CJ Barrett https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1205232 Sat, 20 Jan 2024 04:56:49 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1205232 In reply to Amanda Yorke.

It is harder being older, for lots of reasons. I’m so very sorry you’ve had to endure this pain. Two bad marriages, myself, then ghosted by the love of my life. All of life’s losses come snowballing down.

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By: Albina https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1205044 Wed, 17 Jan 2024 16:51:35 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1205044 I actually haven’t been to that situation. Thank God. It’d be beyond hurtful.
But getting exceeding amount of attention or,should I say, special attention and/or gestures from married men(before I know this fact) happened to me a couple of times. To the point where I start dwelling on what there is to come. Thankfully, I find out a person is married soon enough, and I am the one to walk away. They would still continue on pursuing!!! Why?? What’s the point?? I walk away just from getting attention and it’s already so hurtful. Why would someone do that to another especially if they like them. A mystery…at my age, definitely. There is no time to play games and lie to yourself and others. Life is precious. It’s cruel to intentionally waste someone else’s time like that.

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By: Farrah J https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1205041 Wed, 17 Jan 2024 13:56:08 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1205041 This is brilliant! I’ve followed your advice for years so when I got into something with a separated man, I didn’t go all in and was wary – so it should not have been a surprise that he ghosted me after 6 months, during which, he did all the chasing, and all the date planning. Yes, he was irresponsible! He disappeared on me the night after a wedding we’d gone to together! It was also 4 days before we were meant to go on a trip to Portugal (again, his idea…). I was pretty shocked that a 50-something man could behave in such a childish way and I have a lot of anger toward him still, after 4 months of this happening so this video is really helping me feel less alone and more in control – I feel like my feelings are validated by this because, yes, some guys ARE jerks and we don’t always see it coming. Thank you, Matt.

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By: Yurena https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1205025 Wed, 17 Jan 2024 06:40:12 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1205025 I wish I had known this much before!
He took me on a romantic weekend in the mountains on Friday 23rd and Saturday 24th and on Sunday morning, 25th December 2022 (Christmas day) he broke up with me.it was a trauma, I could have never expected this to happen.
He had found another woman, I found out one month later.
It’s taking me more than one year to recover from this trauma…. Your words really resonate!

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By: Saskia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/why-did-they-invest-then-pull-away/#comment-1204974 Tue, 16 Jan 2024 18:13:42 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=90106#comment-1204974 In reply to Amanda Yorke.

So sorry for you. This was Just crazy and sick!

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