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]]> By: Ariane Jablonka https://matthewhussey.com/blog/lost-the-one/#comment-1223371 Sun, 18 Aug 2024 23:14:48 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92226#comment-1223371 Thank you – it’s so intellectual and practical at the same time … love to be part of your community.
Happy I chose to get into listening to you. Was heavily heart broken and searched for the mistake I made … found out I didn’t challenge the man I fell in love with. Now we parted and he has a new very nice woman at his side …I just decided to move up to a better me …. Whatever the future will bring … I am curious about it. Thanks for all the security and support you offer

]]> By: Sophia Hopkins https://matthewhussey.com/blog/lost-the-one/#comment-1223369 Sun, 18 Aug 2024 22:42:56 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92226#comment-1223369 Excellent advice, Matthew. Thank you for the lift.

]]> By: Julie https://matthewhussey.com/blog/lost-the-one/#comment-1223334 Sun, 18 Aug 2024 14:06:10 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92226#comment-1223334 This video was sent from the universe at THE ultimate right second. I was beating myself up so hard for 1. trusting a man who was only nice to me and showed a lot of love, care and attention when I got to know him, and 2. to let my anxiety take over and me going into a temporary freeze mode when he got cold.

I usually have my guards up and only let very selected people enter my space. He knew it and we talked about it openly. So I told him right at the beginning he is special, and I was honest about trauma and that I am just about to learn to share my feelings and open up. After a while he got cold I wanted to text him and clarify the situation so eagerly but needed more time to collect my thoughts and overcome my fear of rejection (5days). When we spoke he said he can’t be with someone who is only about to learn to communicate directly. Half communication skills would not work for him. That hurt so much that I wish I had overcome my freeze earlier to address things directly, and that I didn’t assume attention is love (even if it was love bombing).
I understand now that I can be proud that I still have a genuine trusting and generous open heart, and that even after trauma I am working hard to overcome my anxiety and communicate better and faster deserves nothing but love, compassion and encouragement.
And I need it to give to myself.

Thank you Matthew and Team for pulling me out of the spiral of painful thoughts and missing self-compassion, and reminding me of my path.

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