Discover how to attract a guy at the gym without risking the social pressure or rejection that can happen sometimes. When most people go to the gym, they get into the standard routine of sticking in their headphones, getting in the zone and running on the treadmill – without even thinking of attracting the opposite sex. So it’s no wonder you’re not meeting anyone there.

So here’s what we will do, I’m going to give you 4 tips on how to attract men in the gym that you can use immediately to get the guy you want:

1. Find something situational

The first step is to find something situational you can comment on, maybe you can ask about a particular routine you want to know more on or maybe you can talk about the music they are playing in the gym and how it’s not very motivational. So find something in that moment you can talk and expand on.

2. Ask him for his help

Make sure you ask him for a helping hand, guys love this… especially in the gym. It’s a testosterone filled environment so you’ll find plenty of guys willing to offer their help, it puts them in a strong position to show off to you. This is the easiest way to grab their attention and get a guy to like you.

3. Join a class WITH MEN

Don’t join a class that is likely to be legs, bums and tums… because you’re more often than not going to find women and gay guys in there, not men that you can build attraction with. Try something new like a kick boxing class or Muay Thai these are were you will find the guys.

4. Become friends with the trainers

Lastly, it’s important to become friends with the trainers at the gym. Why is this? Simple, trainers know everyone at the gym! They know all the clients, it’s their job to know all the clients. So if the trainer knows you’re a sociable fun person, they are likely to introduce you to other guys.

I promise you that if you use just one of the above tips, you will easily attract a guy into your life.

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So you’ve found yourself in the dreaded friend zone with a guy you feel attracted to, this is a place where no one wants to be – man or woman. However you don’t need to worry because it doesn’t have to stay like this, but it definitely means something NEEDS to change!

When a guy starts seeing you as a friend, it simply means he isn’t seeing you in a sexual way, than he would otherwise see another woman. Here’s how to get into his mind and give him a reason to start liking you more than just a friend.

1. Stop acting like one of his “guy” friends

This is probably the most common reason for a guy not fancying you when you’re friends, if you’re similar to his mates then chances are he’s not going to feel that spark.

2. Stale mate!

You need to break out of your shell, what’s happening is he’s seeing you as a little boring – maybe even like a sister which is obviously a bad thing. So you need to show him that you’re not boring and you can let your hair down.

So over the upcoming weeks, start changing your old patterns of behaviour slightly here and there. He will notice this and providing you follow the advice above he will start seeing you in a different light.

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In this video, Matt shows you how to tell if a guy likes you instantly without second guessing anything. If you’ve ever wondered why a guy keeps looking at you, moves closer to you or acts a little strange around you, chance are he likes you!

When you know a guy likes you, things can become a little more interesting – the flirting begins and attraction builds, if you like him of course but there are several signs of attraction from men to watch out for, here are the top 4:

1. Proximity

Do you find him moving towards you in social gatherings? If he comes closer every time you look back at him, this is a natural tendency for guys who are attracted to you. This has been proven to be an unconscious movement, so they don’t even know they are doing it!

2. In conversation

When you are talking to a guy does he offer up any kind of information that you didn’t ask for? If he starts talking about his job, or his car or even his hobbies then it’s a sign he’s trying to impress you. Try not to get bored of hearing the same old lines, just feel flattered that they are trying to get you to like them.

3. Re-initiate

If you let the conversation slowly die down, does he re-initiate verbally or physically? If he does then these are signs a guy likes you, so don’t make him sweat – help him out with a little more conversational flow.

4. Touch

Is this guy looking for reasons to touch you? This is the biggest give away that he likes you, so don’t be afraid to touch him back this is a great way to escalate attraction and show him you are interested as well.

So there you have it… simple steps to follow and look for that will let you know if a guy likes you and is in fact interested in you when you are next in conversation.

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In this video, Matt shows you how to flirt with a guy using physical contact so that you can build attraction quickly, this is to do with your body, your eyes and touching.

The great thing is you can use these tips immediately, so make sure you use them to flirt with men next time you’re out at a bar or at some sort of gathering.

1. Eye contact

Eye contact is very basic but most people get this wrong a lot of the time, when looking at a guy from a distance you need to let him know that you’re attracted to him.  When you look again, make sure you look a little cheeky – like you’ve been caught out to make the situation more fun, enjoyable and sexy.

2. Touching

When your up close and talking to a guy, make sure you get in a lot of touch, we’re not talking about seductive touch or anything like that just playful touching.  When you make a point to someone or you’re laughing, try to touch him on the shoulder or arm. Even if your moving through a bar or something, touch a guy lightly to move past him, this will convey interest.

3. Your voice

When we talk to people and we are nervous we never really speak up and our voice tends to stay at one level, also sometimes our voice speeds up which is very noticeable by the other person. Don’t be afraid to pause… relax and think about every word your saying before you say it. You can communicate so much through your voice – so use it wisely.

There are a lot of flirting tips for women all over the place that give terrible advice, such as acting cold or aloof when talking to a guy you like. Please don’t do this, you will not get him attracted, quite the opposite in fact.

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