Comments on: How To Deal with the Fear of Never Finding Your Person

By: Thea

Thea — Sat, 29 Jun 2024 22:05:38 +0000

Thank you
You have been an amazing help to me I have bought various items from you and listen to your podcast occasionally looks like this book will be perfect for me as I have been struggling in a deep dark hole of depression thinking that I will never have the physical connection like I had some time recently. As well as never finding someone to have a relationship with and growing old alone. Changing my thoughts and perspective accepting what is for now and realising that the wheel of life is constantly in motion. Mind you feeling positive in this moment as I have just eaten half a bar of chocolate and given myself some self love putting it politely

By: Kelly Boisvert

Kelly Boisvert — Mon, 29 Apr 2024 16:25:30 +0000

Thank you so much for this quick guide. I absolutely bought your book – twice. I got the hard copy and then realized I can’t read it when I’m driving or walking so I also bought the audible version. Then I lent the physical copy to a friend. Anyway, I feel like I’m “going through it” today – I’m at an 8-10. I really needed these 3 tips and they feel oh so helpful. I am very much looking forward to listening to the book, then physically reading it as well. Thank you for the gift of helping me self sooth and feel better.

By: Deepa. The Deep View

Deepa. The Deep View — Tue, 23 Apr 2024 18:10:31 +0000

In reply to Ebru.

I am Deepa. The Deep View. Crazy
I have no fear. What is fear? What is my mind i saying inany person ? I don’t like inderectly route so i have any doubt any problems any issue i send any high Authority pannel. They are created to protect all over the world human being i sent this message inmy phone Google are reading. I am not wrong so i am not fear, I saying one, You not Afriad Got it. Ma… tt… hew.

By: Clare Hogan

Clare Hogan — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 12:44:14 +0000

Acceptance of the unacceptable is the key to me right now. My spirit is more lifted than it has been in 2 and 1/2 years. Suffering the ultimate loss and parent can, a partner of 8 years leaving me, and am now on a journey to get things right for the rest of my life. I have the courage now, and have just started, dating. My outlook has been changed for the better since I have embraced Matthews guidelines. My book has not arrived yet, but I cannot wait to read it and in the meantime, I look forward to every podcast and every email.

By: Clare Robinson

Clare Robinson — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 08:39:21 +0000

Great advice,can’t wait to read your book.

By: Raneem

Raneem — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 02:12:48 +0000

I found all three methods very helpful but I liked the third one the most. It is true when you are busy with a project at work or with a hobby then you forget you are lonely and then start feeling this way when you start to have free time. Then I think surrendering (method two) to the fact that now the life goes this way but still might change help relief the fear of staying in the same situation for a long time.

By: Karen McNamara

Karen McNamara — Sun, 21 Apr 2024 22:48:41 +0000

Hi Matthew, thank you…..this is one of your very best videos. Not one to usually comment…though this resonated deeply with me. My husband and I were together almost 20 years when he passed away two years ago, was a rollercoaster of a marriage. Though he knew me well, was my support, confidante and very best friend and as you can guess…… miss him very much. I am a practical minded person and have moved forwards with dating…. two boyfriends since and still with one going on 10 months. Had worked out most of what you were relaying in the video going through this process over the past couple of years. Though what you brought home to me was confirmation and clarity…..I’m on the right path. I felt I was…. though this inspires me to continue accepting what I can’t change and making the changes towards what I can change. Some days I’m in tears with depression though there’s the realisation this too will pass. Time doesn’t heal as such…. though through the process of acceptance and letting go of what can’t be changed….. making the changes of what can be, keeps hope alive. Life is constantly evolving…. a wonderful and intriquing journey to be on when open to all the experiences it brings.

By: Macela

Macela — Sun, 21 Apr 2024 22:03:09 +0000

Me being happy enough and surrendering translates to: I can’t be ok without having kids! At 35 and no prospect partner, I’m working on getting a house soon and start fostering kids. The only way I can think about being happy is to have a family! It’s not good for the kids not to have a father figure, and I do want a partner! I guess, one thing at a time.

By: Katarzyna

Katarzyna — Sun, 21 Apr 2024 20:20:49 +0000

Hi,

I’d love to know how you manage your chronic pain. I also have this particular problem and would be interested what diet you follow and what else you are doing. My pain is debilitating, I do what I can but it is still not enough.

Thank you.

By: Marena

Marena — Sun, 21 Apr 2024 20:06:41 +0000

I absolutely agree with this lecture bc it worked for me, I’ve had a setback but am getting back on my feet and this is the process that will recharge me.