Comments on: 3 Big Problems with THAT Vanity Fair Article on Tinder, and the Truth About Dating Today… https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/ Have The Love Life You Want Wed, 25 Sep 2024 11:31:13 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: smorter giremal https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-1227125 Wed, 25 Sep 2024 11:31:13 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-1227125 Thank you for sharing superb informations. Your web-site is so cool. I’m impressed by the details that you have on this site. It reveals how nicely you perceive this subject. Bookmarked this website page, will come back for more articles. You, my pal, ROCK! I found simply the information I already searched everywhere and just could not come across. What a great site.

]]> By: Jessica https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-1226327 Wed, 18 Sep 2024 18:18:10 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-1226327 In reply to Holly.

Totally agree.. it is ridiculous and stupid !

]]> By: Jondoe https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-709730 Fri, 19 May 2017 12:36:40 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-709730 Your first point is especially important. When I first read the Vanity Fair “article” my first response was something like “what the actual fuck? Are the author and the girls who were interviewed such entitled gold diggers that they think only handsome investment bankers and musicians from NYC count as men, or are they just fucking clueless about the life of the average guy?”

Which connects to the second point: if 1000 girls all swipe right only on the same small group of 10 handsome rich men, then yes, it’s going to be a buffet for those guys and the girls will put up with all kind of shit from these guys, naively hoping he will choose her in the end. These girls are their own worst enemies, and they tend to forget 990 guys are getting nothing.

The only thing Tinder changed is that it gives the illusion of more choice, especially for the women, which raises their standards to unrealistic heights, so they end up getting used by a small group of men. In the end everyone becomes more miserable than they were before, except for those few men who get all the women.

]]> By: Kate https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-680254 Wed, 01 Feb 2017 14:07:24 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-680254 In reply to Ashley Daugherty.

“Yes, you are right women should not accept it but if that’s all that’s offered then what?” Then “Bye Felipe”! Have standards, take back the power by saying “NEXT”, move on and don’t settle for less. Men respect standards.

]]> By: Laetitia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-626945 Mon, 15 Aug 2016 21:41:20 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-626945 Oh god. In a world of real life don drapers, I’d choose nunhood. Does any man seriously look up to that type?

]]> By: Ashley Daugherty https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-624273 Mon, 08 Aug 2016 18:39:45 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-624273 I’m glad you addressed this but it is still a plague on college campuses. Yes, you are right women should not accept it but if that’s all that’s offered then what? Also and yes this is anecdotal evidence but many of the best relationships I have seen started out as one night stands, friends with benefits etc. Many millenials maybe hoping for that and some actually succeed. Ultimately however you need to consider: ghosting, the slow fade, cuffing season, being on the roster and so on. Yes, those are all real things I’ve seen them in action. At a certain point something better doesn’t come along and you missed an opportunity. I guess that’s just what I see happening though. Again anecdotal I know. I still love you thoughts and points however, even if I don’t always agree with them. ;)

]]> By: Jessica https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-567685 Thu, 07 Jan 2016 20:29:54 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-567685 I am so glad you decided to address this. Other issues with this kind of pathetic journalism is that many readers are going to be mislead and miss all the obvious giveaways that this piece of writing is either misguided or intentionally misleading. I feel sorry for all the women who are going to buy into these ideas.
It’s very disempowering and not helpful at all.

]]> By: Andrea https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-567677 Thu, 07 Jan 2016 18:56:47 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-567677 Hi Matt.
I must tell I’ve had too many experiences on Tinder, Happn..etc and what I’ve found is that the majority of guys just want sex, just want the easy thing. Some guys I met up told me that these apps are just for having sex, though I wasn’t looking for that.
I agree with you with the fact that not every guy wants to have a fling, but this is not what these apps have showed me.

]]> By: Cho https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-564300 Mon, 21 Dec 2015 06:11:51 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-564300 love this!!! Matt you’re the best!

]]> By: Bali Wellness Retreat & Bali Yoga Travel https://matthewhussey.com/blog/3-big-problems-with-that-vanity-fair-article-on-tinder-and-the-truth-about-dating-today-2/#comment-532896 Sun, 27 Sep 2015 11:03:33 +0000 http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/?p=15374#comment-532896 Well said Mathew!!

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