Comments on: The Simple Truth: Why You Don’t Find More Men Attractive

By: Jody

Jody — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 13:31:28 +0000

In reply to Linda Wilson. You must leave his person and respect yourself! You already know the answer! I don’t know how you can tolerate him having sex with other women at the same time as you! The utmost disrespect. He doesn’t care about you one bit. You will have to take care of yourself!

By: Jody

Jody — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 13:20:39 +0000

No, not correct at all. The men are just unattractive, to a minimum standard, and it wouldn’t matter how much interest they show me. I’m not attracted to them and that’s it. You must have physical attraction. And then almost all of them just want casual sex, which I will not do. It’s not me, it’s definitely them!

By: M

Tue, 12 Sep 2023 18:10:24 +0000

Hi Matthew,
I do have to disagree with you.
Attraction plays a big role in dating and being in a relationship. If you are not attracted, intimacy becomes a burden and a obligation. No loving intimate relationship can survive just based on personality or they just become your roommates/friends.

By: Jody

Jody — Thu, 29 Jun 2023 12:51:43 +0000

In reply to Andrea Cooper. Same, never ever. It’s not like Netflix!! There’s heaps of good movies on Netflix and I choose them quite quickly, there’s just lots of unattractive men or men who just want sex. That’s it really. Nothing I can change if they are like that. Most men I’ve come across are basic and shallow and don’t make any effort to even have a proper conversation, so no man has ever opened even the first door of the start of who I am. It’s them, not us. I mean dating after 30…

By: Sue Garrison

Sue Garrison — Sun, 17 Jan 2021 02:39:00 +0000

The simple truth is I just can’t find chemistry with most men that I go on a date with. most of these guys either post profile pictures that are from 20 years ago ( which they are already lying from the get-go ) or they are narcissistic and manipulative.

By: Johanna Földesi

Johanna Földesi — Sat, 14 Dec 2019 14:47:32 +0000

my problem is not that i do not find anyone attractive enough to date them
my problem is more like that i have this feeling inside that shouts “No way!”, but at the same time I do feel attracted to a few people. For example I couldn’t be sexually attracted to someone to whom I’m not romantically attracted – I cannot help it, I’m wired like this: I even feel physically sick of the thought that they would touch me in any way, if I’m not attracted to a guy romantically. I think it’s called demi-sexuality, btw, so yes, I am one.
So, how about this phenomenon? Because what you’re saying is true and all that, but what happens when you’re just not wired like most people who could sleep with anyone even without having had developed feelings for the person they are dating?

By: Peggy Kluge

Peggy Kluge — Mon, 11 Mar 2019 17:30:14 +0000

ok,Ive tried that,because I do not think that all my wisdom is right,actually far from it when it comes to love. But my intuition about people is mostly right. I gave someone a chance who was not that appealing to me but showed enormous moral principles. It was a big trap I realized right away. Some men cannot stop talking all about themselves,it’s just exhausting. He kept talking about his goals,what a pain.

By: Margishi

Margishi — Sun, 10 Mar 2019 13:06:04 +0000

Whem i am at level of my full of self Confidence and when i answer the person perfectly and as he wants to get …at that time he interested in me..I think there is no need to create drama and acting to get someone…be the real you and bee the best of you

By: Nika

Nika — Fri, 15 Feb 2019 07:20:43 +0000

There are a ton of interesting good looking guys who would put their best foot forward and keep interesting conversation going for a eve just to announce at the end of the night that they would love to take me home. Lol Not interested in that.

By: Julia

Julia — Sun, 13 Jan 2019 02:04:14 +0000

Because I’m the one who is afraid