Comments on: When You Should STOP GIVING SO MUCH to a Relationship

By: Izzy

Izzy — Sun, 28 Nov 2021 08:23:19 +0000

Totally agree. It’s like speaking a different language.
Some people just want to get the message across, however others want to do the best they can and sound as close to a a native as possible which takes work and the result is also really impressive to most.
Both of them ‘are you’ but one is a ‘better you’.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 22 Oct 2021 15:59:53 +0000

Hey there British fellow. Although, I 100% agree with you that at the beginning of a relationship, one should invest in people that invest back. This mindset needs to grow when entering a marriage. In a marriage both parties are heavily invested. Not only do they share finances, everything is shared. Happy and bad times are shared. If say, you as a husband keep taking track on this quid pro quo exchange. That is not going to work in a marriage. It is not only an extreme amount of pressure to put on your partner, it is also mentally exhausting. Life is messy, in a marriage, you may get a long time where your needs are not met. For example, your wife is pregnant, not only does pregnancy do a number on a woman s body, it also changes the female hormones. It may be two years that you will probably not get some needs met because your wife will be in a place where she is struggling. Pregnancy is not easy on a woman. I understand you are still young and have not had the pleasure of experiencing this part of life yet. Some of your beliefs will need to grow in a marriage if that is something you choose to experience in your future. I really love the fact that you help so many women and in general you seem like a kind man. Keep on being your cheery self.

By: Tori

Tori — Fri, 19 Mar 2021 18:25:36 +0000

''I’m willing to give you the world as long as you meet me there. That’s the cost.'' HECK YES!

By: Abigail Amos

Abigail Amos — Tue, 02 Mar 2021 17:19:26 +0000

Me and Ezekiel have been dating for more than a year,the problem is he is always shutting me out whenever I go silent on him (not because am,but I want to see if he cares)he call only ones in while,he is only desperate to see me when he wants sex,I think am crazy that am still with him av seen allot of red flags and am still in with him,he never seems to care and when ever we talk about he’s always sorry but never change,av broken up with him twice he begs that he’ll change,he said I should be patient I don’t know what to do right now I love him

By: Melisa

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By: Valeria

Valeria — Sun, 28 Feb 2021 12:34:43 +0000

Hi Matthew, thank you very much! Your programs worked for me, most of all to work on my insecurities, to be my best self for me, to be happy as one, as a single person. So selective hearing wasn’t my problem. Even though your programs are about attraction and relationships, you pay a lot of attention to our own independent happiness. I’m very grateful for it.
After I became happy as one, my love life got fixed in no time as well.
Perhaps, I was able to hear this side of your programs, because it was not the only source of information I used. I was also following Alain de Botton, which helped me from a bit of a philosophical side :)
Thank you! And good luck with everything you do!

By: Nadine Vanderpoorten

Nadine Vanderpoorten — Sun, 28 Feb 2021 11:55:43 +0000

Hi Matthew, I remember that you telling us during a live session with us your private members, that it should be about mutual investment, not investing in someone cos you like them, invest in someone who invest as much as you in you. Yes, its important we keep doing things that makes us, as a person, having our own personal things to do, it nurtures our soul, our heart, and our mind it keeps us happy, balanced and healthy. If we do give up on something, that it is something we chosen not to do anymore, not to please the other person. Another great video Matthew :)x

By: Meg

Meg — Sat, 27 Feb 2021 22:53:43 +0000

Thank you Matthew for this reminder. I’m currently going through a breakup and sometimes I get confused by how much I still love the person. In reality, the relationship was not meeting my needs. Thank you for the reminder that the quality of the relationship is so incredibly important!

By: Deborah Abanum

Deborah Abanum — Sat, 27 Feb 2021 21:49:15 +0000

I came to know about you through YouTube suggestions of videos and before I watched your videos I had watched similar videos, but there was something in the way you say what you say that it is both funny and meaningful. You speak with a clarity of mind that is admirable and your personality is endearing. So I looked you up on Instagram, just going through the videos on your feed, I saw the video of your family on Christmas, how you were telling your mom that kitchens get messy when people cook, to me it just made you more fascinating, it was then I decided to follow you. You are just adorable being you, don’t stop being yourself. I admire the strength and courage of people who follow through with their relationships, however I prefer to be single and not have any cares about what someone is doing or what they are not doing. If I get into a relationship I might become another Othello, so I prefer to stay out of it.

You are good at what you do, and in one of your videos you mentioned that someone asked you what qualified you to do what you do? If I were to answer that question on your behalf I would say talent and the people, if you have talent and the people also through their warm reaction of acceptance say you have talent, then you are qualified, Andrea Bocceli said about his son: anyone can say they can sing, but it is the people’s reaction that will determine who can sing and who can’t. You and your brother are doing a great job!

By: Ema

Ema — Sat, 27 Feb 2021 19:00:06 +0000

Always grate advice and listening to you,every time i find something usufull." İ'm willing to give you a world as long as you wonna meet me there". Sometimes i'm forgetting this things and then overthinking is coming to the table. Thank you Matthew