Comments on: How to Get More Serious Without Scaring Them Away https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/ Have The Love Life You Want Tue, 04 Aug 2020 10:08:53 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Kofi Alonso https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-998025 Tue, 04 Aug 2020 10:08:53 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-998025 God bless u dear for help us .Thank u

]]> By: Fazal Mayar https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-996510 Sat, 01 Aug 2020 18:50:13 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-996510 Thanks for this piece

]]> By: Louise Cort https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-992162 Tue, 28 Jul 2020 18:39:00 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-992162 Hi Matthew

I so love your guidance. I’ve been listening to it for months now and I so appreciate knowing I’m not the only one.

I’m still in the throws of being with a lovely man and following your advice.

What really bugs me to be honest though, is I have to listen to ‘Who you are’ on each teaching. I know who you are and I love it. Is there anyway you could enable the message to allow us to fast forward that bit every time? I only ask as I watch a lot of your guidance and I can probably recite who you are now word for word.

Sorry, don’t mean to be disrespectful, I’m in a hurry to hear what you’ve got to say next tis all.

Thank you for your advice and teachings, it really has so helped me. Just thought I’d flag that bit tho.

And, btw, whilst writing, I’d love to join you on your Confidence course, but with covid I don’t see how it’s going to work. Is there an online course available as an option?

Thank you again. You’ve helped me so much through my current relationship. Even when he ended things last December. He came back and I kept your guidance in place the whole time. I feel our relationship is now deeper than ever.

Many thanks again.

Louise

]]> By: J https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991473 Sun, 26 Jul 2020 16:36:01 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991473 I usually find your advice really great! But I would have to respectfully disagree. I have lived with a few boyfriends and I regretted not being engaged before we moved in. I have lost a lot. Time, money and my dignity. I can only speak from experience – but my boyfriends got too comfortable and why buy the cow if you get the milk for free. What is the incentive now for a man to propose? You have now allowed him to see that he can live with you and not have to fully commit. You’re playing house! That’s not the real world. If you are in a situation and have to feel afraid or scared to move in together -then maybe consider breaking up. When you marry each other and move in and things can go wrong – then what? there are no trial runs. Your message is like planting the seed that it’s not going to work out. Anytime you begin a relationship with someone there’s also a risk. You wouldn’t go into a marriage thinking well if it doesn’t work out we can divorce right?

]]> By: FELISTUS MUENI MUTINDA https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991437 Sun, 26 Jul 2020 12:56:09 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991437 So men also fear that they never will b alone again? I’ve always thought it’s women who fear moving in and never being free, because in that arrangement, if it doesn’t work, it feels like it’s the lady who stands to loose more than the man, and again the woman is “under the man”. When the couple decides to live together B4 they marry, it still shows they love each other( this not withstanding- I’ve heard of people who don’t believe true love exists and go ahead being good to portray it) and want to tighten their bond. When they move in together and focus on the other person’s strengths and not weaknesses, they are able to go to a higher level of the relationship. For sure they can’t be clueless about the other person’s behaviours. They must have loved the stupid things the other party does. The stupid things are the most likely to cause damage but if he/ she can cope they are not an obstacle. Well, if you are from church you will not be allowed to do that or you have backsliden- actually you are not supposed to take matters in to your own hands like this- as in don’t even think about sleeping with a man B4 getting married. If u do, Count yourself out, (but there is forgiveness) Nway maaany people fall short- becoz of not knowing what to do, or because of fear etc.

]]> By: Sasha https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991432 Sun, 26 Jul 2020 12:39:35 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991432 I love that you do not send in my inbox a bunch of videos that give absolutely no advise and they just promise a bunch of stuff in a long 30 min video just to end up asking for money!I have unsubscribe to many love advisers because they all do this in every single email!

]]> By: Lydia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991373 Sun, 26 Jul 2020 07:04:09 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991373 I agree that moving in together changes things. There is not trial run in moving in together. If you go for it you do your best to make everything work and you talk about problems that come up and work them out. With a trial run you most likely wont because you already know you’re not stuck in that situation so you take it because in 2 months this situation is over and you’ll be living by yourself again with nobody to complain about your socks all over the floor.

After the few months both parties will be well this was fun. It’s either gonna be weird or it’s gonna be a breakup over some stupid socks because nothing was said about it as this wasn’t a permanent thing anyway..

There is no trial run with moving in together.
You move in and talk about the issues that arise. You both work it out and work on the things thst need to be worked on. If it then still doesn’t wori for some reason you know it will never work so you move on and leave.

]]> By: Miss P https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991207 Sat, 25 Jul 2020 21:18:34 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991207 Wow, such bad advice. They pay you to do this for a living? God help us.

]]> By: Gabriel chizoba https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991142 Sat, 25 Jul 2020 16:58:36 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991142 ]]> Unbelievable is a very good idea ✌️

]]> By: Jenny https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-more-serious-without-scaring-them-away/#comment-991109 Sat, 25 Jul 2020 14:26:11 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=24098#comment-991109 Okay, good advice for people who are in their first serious relationship together . . . What about people with kids who are seeking a second marriage? What if you don’t want to move your kids in with a guy (maybe also with kids) without a higher level of commitment for the sake of the kids?

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