Comments on: Worried He’s Cheating? Here’s What to Say (Script)

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R.buckler11 @ gmail com — Sun, 13 Feb 2022 17:10:15 +0000

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By: Amber

Amber — Wed, 20 Jan 2021 21:48:29 +0000

Been in that boat and still currently. Boyfriend of 14 years, I recently found he had a 5 year relationship and and he slept with our neighbor twice. He begged me to stay when I’d normally leave. I said, I’d stay if he cut ties with both women. The 5 year he did in front of me, the neighbor he wanted to talk to face to face.
On he was good at first to be reassuring and I was starting to trust again. Just when I start trusting, she’d call and the number would show up on the car. Then it was emails and texting. Everyone I heal, she comes into the picture. I found he went to dinner with her which took a month to get the truth out of him. Her best friend told me. He finally blocked her number and would let me see his phone if I request. Which I didn’t request but twice. Recently saw a sexual text come across his block number of hers. He wrote it of that he isn’t interested in her, doesn’t talk. text, call or see her. He says this over and over. Then I see her come over on our security camera. He said he didn’t want to tell me cause she was just delivered cookies and she left. Didn’t want to tell me cause he knew it would start a fight. Now…he has blocked me access to the security cameras and logs. When I asked foe his phone after the sexual message, he refused. He swears nothing is going on but know there is. I’m to the point I want to catch him just to tell him he is full of crap. He has changed so much, he watches tons of porn and found adult hook up sites on the iPad. I’m a mess and every time I cut the cord he doesn’t let me go.

By: Katie

Katie — Wed, 15 Apr 2020 22:49:23 +0000

Hi,

I have been suspicious of mine. I’ve asked point blank and get bullshit. I’ve owned my feelings and said it would be helpful if you could show me your phone. Nothing. He puts it all back on me that I am insecure and now he has to deal with it. His phone behaviours are shady as fuck. I don’t know what to do.

By: Deanna Weeks

Deanna Weeks — Sun, 22 Dec 2019 15:36:58 +0000

Interesting!
I was in same type of situation, I’m the female and my take is…if you have nothing to hide…hide nothing.
My guy went Mia for 5 days..texted me on day 1 said he was at urgent care then in the hospital with “massive migraine ” s text here and there then said his battery was at 10 %. Bla..bla..bla…he drive right from the hospital…to come see me as it was my bday…still went with the story..nothing made sense about his story….so I asked him what arm his iv was in…he showed me….for 5 days with a iv….there was no mark! I am a nurse so I cautiously asked more questions. I told him if he wanted to continue with our relationship I would need for him to prove he was there. I said discharge papers would be great. Said he didnt have them, everything was electronic. Total bs. So I broke it off with him. That was my answer.
Then 2 weeks later he shows up at my house with a pandora bag…a gift…
Still confused to lie. Then fessed up said he was really in NC visiting his mom for her bday and wasnt ready for me to meet her(he is 52 and we have been dating for almost a year !)
I totally broke it completely off. He sends me this 3 page email confessing his love and trying to turn it on me and said I had insecurities.

By: Karen

Karen — Sun, 22 Sep 2019 23:58:54 +0000

Matt, you are always saying be a ‘high value woman’, well a high value woman would not stand for her partner to talk to her in that manner!
Women have an intuition, and I think she deep down probably knows that he is not the one for her.

By: Karen Knox

Karen Knox — Sun, 22 Sep 2019 23:57:32 +0000

By: Tina

Tina — Mon, 26 Aug 2019 07:29:24 +0000

It sounds like he’s a textbook narcissist and gaslighting her. My husband spent the majority of our marriage saying things like that to me, blaming me when I questioned him. “If you weren’t snooping, you wouldn’t have found it” after he told me to check his phone for details his mother had sent him and I found texts from some chick. “It’s your fault for letting my have female friends” when another actually had the stones to call ME and say he isn’t answering his phone. It took me way too long to figure out what I was married to, but once I did, I took steps to end it. No one deserves to have their soul destroyed, no matter what you’ve been through together.

By: Fiona Ip

Fiona Ip — Mon, 10 Jun 2019 02:01:52 +0000

He doesn’t sound like a patient/tolerant person. As per mentioned by Matt, if she had done it many times, ok, his answer is understandable but saying that for the first time is a bit suspicious. It would certainly put doubts in my mind if I was her. Good luck to her, I hope she gets it sorted. Just need to have a honest dialogue with him and he is still defensive about it, she needs to evaluate her relationship. It’s not about the length of time you are with someone but the quality of it.

By: Karen

Karen — Sat, 08 Jun 2019 14:27:13 +0000

Dated a guy for 3yrs all was good until he received text @11pm from a women I had never meet. Ask to see the conversation, he replied that I had insecurities and needed to grow up. He informed me we were rock solid & would never jeopardise the relationship we had.
Asked for clarity, more closure. He refused to show me conversation
and pushed all the blame on me for past in security

I showed him the door, locked it and cried myself to sleep

Two yrs later have a beautiful gentleman, however this past experience taught me a lot in finding my feminine inner soul instead of being defensive and masculine past vibrations as not all guys are the same, nor should we treat them so

By: Jolene

Jolene — Tue, 04 Jun 2019 07:42:39 +0000

Something like this happened to me once.
My response to the errant text would have been:
“lolz! oh yeah, so tell me how YOU like it!”

It’s a little different way of learning what’s going on.