Comments on: Is He Love Bombing You? 3 Tests https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/ Have The Love Life You Want Mon, 23 Sep 2024 11:39:15 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: binance referal code https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1226861 Mon, 23 Sep 2024 11:39:15 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1226861 Thanks for sharing. I read many of your blog posts, cool, your blog is very good.

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By: Jeanette https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1171129 Thu, 21 Jul 2022 18:06:24 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1171129 Wow, thank you so much for this!! All these signs were there with my last boyfriend. He moved at what I used to say was “Turbo Speed”. Before we even met for our first date he had written a song for me. Then from the first date he wanted to move in, and when I said no he got so upset and didn’t want to get his own apartment. He had the audacity to tell me one day (when I told him he needed to go back to his apartment) “Why does the dog get to stay, and I don’t?” When I had friends and family warning me that there was something they didn’t like about him, I should have listened. But I didn’t as I had on those rose colored glasses. I had no idea what “love bombing” was, let alone the dangers dating someone like this.

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By: Kristle https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1171028 Mon, 18 Jul 2022 16:00:25 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1171028 In reply to Laura.

My gosh Laura….tight hugs to you. What a horrible experience. I am so sorry about this struggle. Where in Australia are you? I am moving in September to QLD. take care! Xx

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By: Katie Smith https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1170651 Thu, 07 Jul 2022 08:53:13 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1170651 I know this was supposed to be a secret but I’m so happy right now and I just can’t help it but to say a very big thanks to Dr. Oman for restoring my relationship within 24 hours with his harmless love spell just when all hope is gone. I’m so happy with life now.  A big thanks to Dr. Oman for getting him through his mobile contact +2348023357986  and his YouTube channel;   https://youtube.com/channel/UCnteU-u8GutKdjxc_NIlVew

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By: Tatiana https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1165188 Mon, 18 Apr 2022 15:22:05 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1165188 In reply to Chanuka Silva.

Thank you for your advices. Much light and courage in your way. God bless.

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By: Amanda https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1165178 Mon, 18 Apr 2022 10:18:12 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1165178 In reply to maria.

I really enjoyed this. I’ve been getting “bombed” a helluva lot lately – innocuously, incongruously, while playing an online word game at which I happen to be rather good. In a way, as an older woman living in a town with a lot more women than men (in which case older women like me often become almost invisible), it’s not the worst thing for one’s ego – sort of amusing. Dozens of guys demanding my attention. And actually, it seems to have had an uncanny effect on the dynamics operating in my immediate environment. I seem to be getting noticed a bit more.

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By: Mary https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1165062 Fri, 15 Apr 2022 12:32:24 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1165062 I think I may’ve just experienced this!

I’d met a guy on an app over a year and a half ago, we texted for a few weeks and clicked well, met up once. He seemed nice and cool but he was going through a divorce (didn’t know he was still legally married until we met up… first amber/pink flag) and a rough time so we didn’t date after that.

We reconnected recently through a friend and he asked me out, and I said sure. But over text he kept saying things that felt too advanced for our level of dating (“you’re cute” repeatedly, “let’s hang out now,” “hey. I didn’t see your face today.” etc). It felt off for being basically pre-first date.

With a friend’s help I wrote out what I think was a pretty grounded, neutral text saying since it’s been so long I wanted to let him know where my head was at (still pretty early stage dating), and asked how he was feeling/if that lined up for him.

He immediately got defensive, and was acting like we had some deep previous connection from texting for a while the first time we met (when I didn’t even know he was married and living with his still-wife). It all just felt off and intense, so we canceled our date.

I don’t know if it was “love bombing” but it definitely felt like he was projecting something onto me/“us” that wasn’t actually there.

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By: Kelley https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1164916 Tue, 12 Apr 2022 19:28:49 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1164916 Met a man I worked with – same company but we both work remotely in different states. It started with a call outside of work and we quickly realized how much we have in common and our phone calls got longer and longer. After just a few conversations I shared that I hadn’t had a relationship or sex in 8 years and only tried online dating briefly 4 years ago. He then said he would like to take me out – he lives 800 miles away, so he planned on driving to meet me. I honestly didn’t believe he was serious. As it turned out, he wasn’t able to visit that weekend, but did fly in a few weeks later. During the time before his arrival we talked and texted everyday. The content was fun and flirty and I was really starting to fall for him. Every night before bed we would have 2+ hour long discussions about life, what we wanted, our past. Even though we were long distance, I felt very connected and had never received that level of daily attention. The weekend he came to visit was amazing. He was charming, funny, considerate, thoughtful, respectful, affectionate and treated me like a goddess, something that I had never experienced – essentially sweeping me off my feet. I hadn’t planned on being intimate with him during our first weekend meeting in person, but after a month of intense communication, I was emotionally and physically attracted. We spent 3 amazing romantic days and after the visit our daily & nightly calls continued and he often said he missed me and couldn’t wait to see me again.
Then…IT happened! Only 3 weeks after our love fest weekend and 6 weeks into our long distance romance, instead of our evening calls which had become a nightly ritual that I loved, he sent me a text on a Saturday afternoon, “I’m going radio silent today. I’ll reach out tomorrow. Talk soon” But, he didn’t call or text the next day, and I was very anxious not hearing from him By Monday morning and no phone contact, I was bonkers since we had been talking every day for hours since the beginning. I sent an “I miss you” GIF and he replied, “I needed some alone time. Still working thru it. I’ll call you later. I’m ok.” But after that, the sweet phone calls at night stopped and he began communicating less frequently, text messages were short and no more cute emoji’s or GIFS. His level of interest and investment had dramatically tapered off until things finally disintegrated. The whole “thing” lasted about 12 weeks and I was heartbroken realizing he wasn’t into me or putting in or maintaining the level of effort he showed initially, even after HE was the one that was pushing things forward so fast in the beginning. Of course I never got an explanation of how/why things went off track, which triggered a lot of issues for me like insecurity, abandonment, not feeling good enough, etc. But the loss I felt did cause me to do a lot of self reflection and confront my demons from the past Yes, I was totally love bombed! It sucked, but I have a new attitude now since I understand myself, relationships, sex and men much better since becoming a Matthew Hussey follower!

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By: Coy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1164845 Mon, 11 Apr 2022 10:07:44 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1164845 When I compare my past experiences and relationship of whom in different kind friendship, romantic, intimate, and a relationship just like yours.

I myself know’s, how I would and what I have for my feelings towards a person. Physical appearance is easily mistaken as an emotional feelings, where there is appreciation, admiration, and likings was being overpower the feelings. That’s why some as I heard from few that they look physical attraction for they can amend the feelings in the long run or process of the relationship.

When in terms of feelings, emotions, and connections that holds the bond of your desire to show and prove that it is a matter to you and for the other one/person in no doubt expressing is not an issue despite the benefit of the doubt that you have from the past experience, from the story and advice that been heard, and the circumstances of the time is not yet incubating to have a trigger of doubts, fear, and confusion of it is worth to take it or it is worth to leave it.

It is not the feelings, emotions, and connections stopping us to be in love and to be love for, It is you invest the probability of failure than the opportunity and potentially a life time partner that comes in the time of your discomfort – for as they say distraction will come when you are in the right thing, in the right time for they hold you to be a hostage of your own.

As love has a lot of meaning and character from person to person from where there attraction could catch theme in the moment that love calls the soul of a two, that’s how you can’t stop love when the two are investing for that love they wait, they nurture, and evaluate of how the matter of love is all about in a relation that thinking of.

Love is not an affection nor an attention. Love is an emotion that even your sad you are okay, even you are happy you are sad when love is not there. Love is when you know – the label of your commitment to the person you love for it is love know’s no boundary nor a separation and division, for love is a label of your love, a seal of integrity, honor, and values that having love is okay and when timea comes just for example one of you mistakenly fallout as it is a possiblelity but hopefully not, I wish for the best that in true love we can learn that love is like our life in time of our death it the time for death do will be end. Same as in everything let’s not romantacising the Love is a hyppe feeling only because in love you find a perfect gems, the precious one, also in love you can be shattered into pieces. Always remember that in every brokenness that we have there is a perfect art of love that we can grow together to be the museum of growing, enjoying, creating, and everything that can be possible in love.

Have a nice day and I wish all of you a good hunt for the love that is perfect for you and your future ones.

Thank you.

Coy

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By: Merja https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-love-bombing-you-3-tests/#comment-1164839 Mon, 11 Apr 2022 07:48:19 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=51395#comment-1164839 In reply to Maria.

He was just telling you nice thing to get your money. He is a catfish, a fraud. He never cared for you. I’m sorry. :/

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