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By: Jayden

Jayden — Tue, 21 Dec 2021 12:43:04 +0000

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By: Amanda

Amanda — Thu, 18 Nov 2021 15:37:03 +0000

Hi Matt. I contacted you a few months ago about an online relationship. It IS difficult when the other is halfway across the world in a different time-zone. Plus my guy, a brilliant IT specialist, is a workaholic with a degenerative illness, & is gradually losing the sense of when I’ll be around. It’s weird to be mourning someone when no-one around me knows him except through me. I mean, the whole thing is weird, but to my surprise, at 67 I’ve found a fair percentage of women friends – even far more conventional-looking ones than me – are doing a variation of the same thing. Who’d’a thought it! I’m not sure if it would’ve been easier if we were physically together, or worse. One thing that sort of helps: I’ve met his cousin also, the same way as I met him, playing an online word-game. Also a brilliant guy. Gives me a sense of relatedness. Sort of surreal though.

By: Judd

Judd — Sun, 14 Nov 2021 06:58:27 +0000

May I offer a different reason why the divorce rate is lower for couples who meet through friends than online.

Friends are more likely to have similar values to us, and share a world-view akin to our own; we ‘like’ them because they are like us.
Birds of a feather flock together, so others with similar values and views would be attracted to our friend group, hence how we come to meet these new people.

When couples form with similar values and world-views they are more likely to succeed than those whose top say 5 values differ.

The problem with online dating, most people are unaware of what it takes to have a successful relationship, so they don’t know what to look for to ensure aligned values.

Because it’s not about aligned activities or interests, that’s not the glue to a great friendship, let alone a romantic, intimate connection with your significant other.

And the dating app algorithms… well, they’re there to ensure profits for the business, not to ensure they create connection quickly and lose customers.

By: Rachel

Rachel — Sat, 13 Nov 2021 23:45:44 +0000

I disagree on this, my last 2 relationships we met online – (one I was married the other defacto) both still ended, despite combining our lives on all levels.
It definitely made life post breakup a lot harder.
But I don’t believe my ex husband took our combined lives into account in his decision to leave.
And whilst I did think about all I’d loose from my combined life with ex defacto I felt I had to leave cause I couldn’t bear the pain of knowing he was cheating on me and stay.
Leaving has had a way bigger impact on my life than I anticipated.
I’ve often had that thought that I should have stayed cause I have now lost so much by doing so.
Yet part of me knows – it happened the way it happened cause it couldn’t have happened any other way cause it didn’t.
So in my opinion meeting online or via friends – sometimes no matter how intertwined your lives are relationships still end.

By: LBN

LBN — Sat, 13 Nov 2021 21:31:34 +0000

Brilliant as always!
It made me think of something: What do you think about someone who’s still in touch and hangs out with her ex’s friends or people she met through her ex, with no intention of getting back with him? Some friends say it’s mature, others say it’s nasty.

By: Lizi

Lizi — Sat, 13 Nov 2021 16:34:16 +0000

Hi Matt, Thanks for all your vids and invaluable info. WRT this video though, my husband of 20 years dumped me for his one and only that he met online. Well, I was in IT I knew and did nothing to stop it. Why thrash a dead horse, pointless. I thought it would fizzle out eventually but he divorced me and has been married to her for 20 years. Yup I’m 64 now. Still. we all need love. I met my current husband at work. Probably a mistake but you live and learn. 20 years not been bad but there are always problems when 2 universes collide and you have to somehow sort them out. Hence my listening to your podcasts and trying to find out what it is that is making my man turn off me. Well, pleased to report your sensible information has helped tremendously. He hasn’t changed but I am learning to chill out and not use those weapons you talked about in 2020. Have signed up for the course and so looking forward to some more tips and tricks to keep my man happy. Do you do a men’s one by any chance? Might persuade him to take a look too. Hinting for some books for Christmas from him. (sigh)