Comments on: 5 Secrets to Getting a Relationship Even When You Hate Dating https://matthewhussey.com/blog/5-secrets-to-getting-a-relationship-even-when-you-hate-dating/ Have The Love Life You Want Wed, 07 Jul 2021 17:09:58 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Nadine Vanderpoorten https://matthewhussey.com/blog/5-secrets-to-getting-a-relationship-even-when-you-hate-dating/#comment-1119939 Wed, 07 Jul 2021 17:09:58 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=25162#comment-1119939 Hi Matthew, I stopped making people more important than they are in my life, I don’t put others on a pedastal anymore, cos of your teachings, I know that is a good approach, as I don’t expect another to be everything for me, that like you say it puts too much pressure on the person, I started to have different people for different things. Kind of like creating my success team for my dream life. I am still learning to not give too much away from myself to others, whatever mood I am in, not always easy, I don’t think I am bipolar. I am also a gemini, gemini’s get easily misunderstood, cos so much that I want to share, my mom says that I sometimes overshare, its not my intention, its more of, something needs to be off my chest. I used to give more than I receive from people, I learned to do that less throught the years, in my marriage i was the provider, as a woman I didn’t mind working and providing for him and me, more came from my side in other matters too than from him, than it becomses a problem, where u have to have those uncomfortable conversations, then, other things come to surface, u have no idea of, it only results in fights! Thats why I stopped giving more to others than I receive back. I would do 1% effort if I was seriously dating someone, I been now divorced 13 years.
I put myself and my needs first before anyone elses, i also do this in my finances, also because I used to do what I previous said here. At some moment u decide, I don’t want to be like that anymore, now its me first, my needs, thats what leaded me to my level up journey, how Anna Bey my mentor for a level up journey came into my life. I plan to make a dating planner in the future, to track how my connections evolve with people, although you could also call it a networking planner lol I am not an attention seeker in social life, I never talk to people just to get attention, even if i share a lot online, I don’t do it to get attention, although I been blamed of that a few times, those people don’t know me, I do think more and more about my social media strategy, cos my life path is evolving into getting in contact with more affluent and very rich people, like I became officially a founding member of Ken Honda’s new commmunity site, that will be officially launched in August this year. It was a job offer I got from Ken Honda himself, not sure if I will be payed for this, I got the position, even if I won’t be the only founding member, he has amazing ideas, projects I be able to work with them, he will one day invite us to Japan, I hope to have a partner by then, cos I don’t see myself travelling alone to Japan. I think these things manifest in my life, cos I am on the right path, I am doing the things I should to better the quality of my life, who knows whats more to come, I am doing well.

]]> By: jane https://matthewhussey.com/blog/5-secrets-to-getting-a-relationship-even-when-you-hate-dating/#comment-1119356 Wed, 30 Jun 2021 19:33:53 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=25162#comment-1119356 I don’t even call it ‘dating’. I say to my friends I’m ‘kissing frogs’. That way I keep my head straight that, until proven otherwise, this person is a frog not a prince. I’m out there hoping for a prince to show himself, and putting some effort in, but this is not serious, it’s a laugh and it’s only one of the things I’m doing with my free time.

Happy Frog-Kissing to you ladies out there!

]]> By: Guro https://matthewhussey.com/blog/5-secrets-to-getting-a-relationship-even-when-you-hate-dating/#comment-1118873 Sun, 27 Jun 2021 17:20:27 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=25162#comment-1118873 Great advice Matthew! This makes sense! I admit that I often search for attention and understand now that I have to be more carefull when I’m in that mood.

]]> By: Devi https://matthewhussey.com/blog/5-secrets-to-getting-a-relationship-even-when-you-hate-dating/#comment-1118824 Sat, 26 Jun 2021 21:44:17 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=25162#comment-1118824 A guy came into my life last year who was a complete waste of my time. He was in a relationship and hiding it, from me. So his behaviour was mixed messagey, he blew hot and cold, he played games, he emotionally cheated on his partner to solicit information from me, when he was with someone else – and I bet he thinks he did nothing wrong. Anyway, I am hoping to avoid this situation again, in the future – but how do you communicate to someone that their behaviour is just not good enough, earlier on? Do you just not engage with it? I just feel that this situation was so beneath me. He behaved like a selfish child, instead of a man.

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