Comments on: How to Make Dating Apps Human Again…

By: Payal

Payal — Sun, 21 Apr 2019 14:52:14 +0000

Thank you for making this video.. It completely makes sense.. But however in India, it’s better to make sure the guy is ok to meet before by chatting for a while for safety reasons..

By: Maria Guerra

Maria Guerra — Tue, 15 Jan 2019 16:36:28 +0000

I am that girl that chooses to meet within one week. It is weeded out the guys that aren’t in it for real. I’ve been watching your videos for a good while now. Thanks Matthew.

By: MH Support

MH Support — Wed, 28 Mar 2018 12:57:11 +0000

In reply to A K.

Hi AK, thanks for sharing your story! Have you checked out Matt’s “How To Talk to Men”? Matt gives some incredible advice on there that could really change your love life. More info here: https://matthewhussey.com/thescripts/vsl/. Best of luck! – Mars

By: TBabs

TBabs — Tue, 27 Mar 2018 21:02:11 +0000

Very good and all true. Dating apps are great tools, they should be used as such. They are only as good as we make them.

By: TBabs

TBabs — Tue, 27 Mar 2018 21:01:14 +0000

Very good

By: A K

A K — Tue, 27 Mar 2018 09:05:03 +0000

Hello! I’ve also given up internet dating.
I’m a Christian girl in a Scandinavian country. I’ve never been in a relationship at the age of 29, but it’s because I haven’t found anything mutual.
I get friend-zoned every time I really like someone in real life, but guys go crazy over me online. Which should be a luxury problem, but I freak out by not knowing who they are through a profile, and withdraw.
The few dates I’ve been to have been unsuccessful, and I just hate getting so nervous and having to hurt someone afterwards.
I generally fall for laid back guys who are confident in themselves, but have yet to find something mutual with the ones I liked.
Being an INFJ, I feel very two-faced; warm in one second and cold if you cross my boundaries.
I often attract guys who come to me with their problems, and I don’t want to date them. They often drain me emotionally.
I suppose my problem is that I’m too complicated for the easy going guy I’d like, even though I also have a very easy going side myself.
How do I solve this, then?

By: MH Support

MH Support — Mon, 26 Mar 2018 16:40:42 +0000

In reply to Claire Sullivan.

Hey Claire! Have you checked out Matt’s “How to Talk to Men”? This guide is insanely helpful for learning how to communicate with men to start getting treated the way you deserve: https://matthewhussey.com/thescripts/vsl/ – Mars

By: Claire Sullivan

Claire Sullivan — Sun, 25 Mar 2018 19:07:22 +0000

I deleted both pof and Tinder last week as i became very disheartened. I was always myself and honest and said what i thought and feel when i talked to a man online but i also dont like to ignore people and i suppose it was a combination of things that made me feel this way- i had some awful comments aswell as some lovely compliments ,i went on a few dates but didnt meet anyone i truly connected with, Im still chatting to one guy that messaged me on pof as theres something about him that i cant explain but im very drawn to him- however-although he phones me most nights he hardly ever has his phone on -hes ordered a new battery as this one is dying- but whenever we arrange to meet he then goes quiet so the date never actually happens. Im very torn and saddened by this and im a bit confused as this conflicts with him telling me that he cant wait to meet me and im not sure what to do next except wait for his next move really.

By: Shers

Shers — Thu, 08 Mar 2018 00:26:14 +0000

Here’s a question I have, it is related to the online dating. Let’s say things are going well and all of a sudden, he makes an inappropriate comment.
I sent a picture, just a head shot wearing a turtle neck. Nothing provocative at all. He responds, “You’re beautiful.” I thank him. Hours later, he says, “I just looked at your picture and it looks like you have HUGE boobs.”
Uh, yeah. Regardless that is true, this is not something I want to discuss until we’ve actually met and are dating.
I don’t want to be aggressive and the perfect text for a shower picture doesn’t work as he wasn’t asking for anything – only making an observation.
This could be any observation (butt, chest, lips, etc) and whilst he’s probably thinking he’s giving me a compliment, it’s absolutely sexist and inappropriate. I don’t view this as a compliment.
Help.

By: Martina

Martina — Wed, 07 Mar 2018 23:25:44 +0000

This is not a relatited comment on the blok post… But, I am a member of many of your programs, specially Retreat… but I still find myself in.difficult moments…to follow the advices.. .and sometimes the only thing I wish is to have (wear) bracelet of commitment.. to wear a reminder of the rules, advices, selfworth, knowledge from you, reminder of community and that I am not alone… Please, can you start to sell some Bracelet of commitment?? Just an idea..