Comments on: If You’ve Ever Been Ghosted or Lied to, Watch THIS

By: maria garcia

maria garcia — Sun, 10 Oct 2021 03:59:50 +0000

So on point with this Matthew!

By: Amanda Yorke

Amanda Yorke — Sat, 09 Oct 2021 04:27:48 +0000

I really enjoyed this video. I can so relate. I’m rated as a highly intelligent person, but have a terrible record with men! Too complicated to explain here.

By: MP

MP — Sun, 03 Oct 2021 21:34:37 +0000

Your videos always come at the right times, thank you for everything you do xx

By: Stephanie Mullicane

Stephanie Mullicane — Sun, 03 Oct 2021 02:52:45 +0000

you immediately jumped on the word closure but that isn’t what she is talking about. she’s talking about waiting around for him to keep his word. she is wondering how to accept that he is who he said he’d be without it reflecting something back to her about herself that must be in need of alteration- that without knowing what that is or how to fix it appropriately, would leave her vulnerable to this reoccurring should she put herself out there again. its hard to move on from something painful without learning the lesson. some people would rather believe that the lesson lies within themselves rather than the lesson simply being, that guy must be an a**hole.

By: Jess

Jess — Sat, 02 Oct 2021 21:07:06 +0000

Almost wish I’d found this video months ago. I wish I had been ghosted at the beginning but we had a relationship and he ghosted me throughout the relationship. Never really apologising when he came back. He showed up most of the time and showed deep care but after a year and a half was still saying he didn’t love me and didn’t see a future. I clung to the actions and avoided hearing the words. 2 weeks after we’ve broken up, I’ve purchased the get him running back to you program, but he’s jumped on tinder and found the first woman to say yes to a date and intends to date her already. It’s a month today since the breakup. But I know now who he is – what his true colours are. I only wish I would have believed it earlier and chosen myself instead of talking him back previously after bad behaviour or hurtful words.

I would love to be part of the live coaching but it’s far too early at 4am in Australia. And too expensive when I can’t talk to you or properly be part of the community or conversation even though I would dearly love to be. For all those who can, it looks to be amazing and good luck on your own journeys

By: Roxanne Drayton

Roxanne Drayton — Sat, 02 Oct 2021 20:45:11 +0000

Hi Matt, honestly alot of your words had such an effect mainly because i went through the full package. I've had to learn by experience through fire about all you've said. Thing is im really glad to have the opportunity to put my experience to words through you. I lost four years of my life but im learning about or having a better understanding of myself and the really sad experiences. Thank you.

By: Nadine V

Nadine V — Sat, 02 Oct 2021 17:42:15 +0000

Hey Matthew :)

I agree with she should not have waited to hear from him, a man that likes you, will always find a way to let u know where u stand with him, not let u wait for days, weeks or months. He won’t leave u guessing neither, that u have no idea where u stand with him. If there is no clear communication between a woman and a man, its hard to create a real bound, or build up a real connection, a man that likes u won’t let u guess.

Actions versus words, I remember when u taught us that, to look at actions more than words, that its important his actions are same as his words, in a positive way ofcourse. If he does maybe break a promise that he has a good reason to show u why he did that, not make a stupid excuse,ncos he didn’t feel like it. That would be closure too if he says, oh I didn’t feel like goin on a date with you, or I rather stayed at home, or forgets to notify you and you’re all ready for goin on a date, waiting to hear from him, he is just relaxing at home. I think that happens to, never happend to me but, I am sure other women have been in this situation.
Maybe also see how he reacts when u as a woman couldn’t make a promise real, if he understands. How he reacts to you.

I do keep this advice as a mental sticky note in my brain :) I got more mental sticky notes of you in my brain Matthew xx

By: Aiza Dialca

Aiza Dialca — Sat, 02 Oct 2021 15:09:47 +0000

This is so true Thank you!