My experience in past with dating websites was, a lot like you, you get matches, u make effort, they don’t, or as a woman, u get men they are only interested in one thing, sex, or a one night stand, or they are super flirty from beginning like, sexual texts. Some women love that, I don’t, when a man was sexting with me to hook me up, I felt scared, didn’t respond to it.
Some women are very fluent in texting, don’t mind having a one night stand, cos they are very sexual of nature. I never hooked up with a guy for one night, its not my style. I am very old fashioned in dating. I think finding out someone’s fave way of dating is already a great tip, by observing them, how they interact with another, not to compete, not to compare yourself, but more of, is their dating style how I would date someone, cos they can match you Matthew and Stephen, if their actions do not line up with the values u have in common, than they are not a right match, then its just algorythms, an artificial interlligence that just gathers a bunch of information, that does not just happen with you, that happens with thousands of men, that gets sorted out by this technology, breaks it down into a small % on your profile, cos every profile has an amaount of megabites on the internet of use, its a whole network of computers and databanks. Thats how I would find out, is this person’s style of dating or communicatin lining up with the values we match with, like you teach us Matthew, does his actions match with his words, or is it contrarary. Apperantly these women that match with you Matthew, their actions do not add up to the values u have together, if they can’t appreciate you now, or don’t want to make time for u now, then they will become a zombie, after long time they come back to see if u would wait that long for them, maybe they are doing that, testing you to see if after so much time u will come back again, that they maybe think, he is Matthew hussey, he is famous, etc, that they are shocked they get a message from u, don’t know how to react, or wonder and wonder how to respond back that as a famous person, they are blinded by that, don’t know how to deal with someoone famous being interested in them, or they are afraid of the paparazzi, if they go on a date with you, that they will be chased by the press, etc, or they have it busy for now, like Stephen says, who knows what it is, we are just guessing, I would not take it personal Matthew, you are a great man, you would be a good boyfriend to have!!
If these women don’t realise that, they are dumb.
You can be my boyfriend :) we could text and videocall on Whatsapp.

I do that too, I say hi and smile to strangers on the street, it tells your environment you are open to receive energy from others. A lot of people want to do that, they don’t dare to, cos they think I don’t know this person, i don’t want to come over weird. Creating your own culture, definitely, thats what i am goin to do too, I am goin to put a social media team together with people I will hire from the site Fiverr, where u can hire freelancers for assignments u put up on Fiverr.
I think u can be on these apps, but, life is funny, u can have the intention of I want to try online dating, u know deep down in ur heart when u have something good with someone, that person may not be on there, it can be someone u already know, or even a member in ur community ;) u should try all your source pools, like u teach us Matthew ;) also there is the universe, the universe already knows whats on your path, cos it guides us every day, what has to happen will happen, your person is out there, no matter where she is, with someone or not, she’s already yours, you can’t lose what belongs to you, no matter what is goin on in your life or reality, u can’t lose her, u will know and have signs. I been single long time after my divorce, 13 years single now this Summer, thats really long, I know it will happen, doing really well, glad I found you :)