Comments on: If You Hear THIS, You’re About to Get Your Heart Broken https://matthewhussey.com/blog/if-you-hear-this-heart-broken/ Have The Love Life You Want Mon, 05 Feb 2024 16:02:57 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Jane https://matthewhussey.com/blog/if-you-hear-this-heart-broken/#comment-1206605 Mon, 05 Feb 2024 16:02:57 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=89636#comment-1206605 My relationship was restored by R.bu ck ler 11 (((gmail…… com)))

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By: Cissy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/if-you-hear-this-heart-broken/#comment-1202057 Mon, 11 Dec 2023 13:07:24 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=89636#comment-1202057 What if dating 4 years known each other 37 dated in high school 1987
But I feel like he doesn’t want to commit seriously because?? I feel social media because he would get attention from other women. Am I wrong?

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By: Jill https://matthewhussey.com/blog/if-you-hear-this-heart-broken/#comment-1202017 Mon, 11 Dec 2023 03:04:05 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=89636#comment-1202017 There’s a guy that has been dating his girlfriend for ten years and they have a child together. He’s said on several instances that his ex is someone to watch out for because if he ever visited her and stayed for a week he would probably end up married. What the hell does that mean and why be with someone else for ten years?

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By: Amanda Yorke https://matthewhussey.com/blog/if-you-hear-this-heart-broken/#comment-1202008 Mon, 11 Dec 2023 00:45:26 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=89636#comment-1202008 Presently confused over someone TOO available. We’re part of a study group. Afterwards, we two would often go to the surf beach & he started inviting me home for a cuppa after. I kissed him one day. He liked it & wanted more, but I backed off – then he disappeared for months. Yesterday he reappeared at the group, but was making arrangements to catch up with a much younger woman. After she left, I got ready to head to the beach & he asked if he could come too. I just laughed, shrugged & said I didn’t care. I saw his van there later, at the far end of the carpark. It’s not great seeing someone my age who thinks I should be flattered by his part-time attentions.

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By: Olivia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/if-you-hear-this-heart-broken/#comment-1201996 Sun, 10 Dec 2023 20:38:50 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=89636#comment-1201996 I dated someone recently out of a long relationship who was the one who left that relationship. They had no deeper connection, they had little in common, not even the same political party, prior to the breakup they lived like roommates, they rarely slept together, etc. He wasn’t bitter about their relationship or break up. He wasn’t showing any signs of continuing attachment. So I threw out the rule book that time matters when it comes to whether someone is over an ex. Yet 9 months into our relationship I found out he’d been cheating on me with her the entire time. Two completely parallel lives. There were signs of increasing distance from him during our relationship which is why I pushed for answers, but that aside there were zero signs that he was still attached to his ex or was cheating. I came to learn that they had a codependent relationship and even though he had no real intimate connection with her, he couldn’t live without her attention, validation, and support. The truth is…there are zero guarantees. Ever. Dating is a risk. Always. With anyone. Even when the boxes are all checked and there are no signs to the contrary.

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