Comments on: Is He Right For You? Find Out With These 4 Questions https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/ Have The Love Life You Want Wed, 16 Feb 2022 18:03:43 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Carolyn https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1161070 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 10:26:18 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1161070 this is great – these questions are exactly what helps me clarify if someone is right for me. thanks for articulating them.

]]> By: Iskander https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160692 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 16:39:31 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160692 In reply to Katherine.

I totally agree with Katherine: your today videos in the format of brothers’ chat are lazy, boring and full of vague controversial information. Even YOU, Matthew, look bored and uninspired with your own “insights”. You have a hollow look in your eyes. And please stop talking banalties. It seems you lost what once made you one of the best spokesmen and coaches. Podcasts suck. It all used to be SO MUCH different.

]]> By: Reena https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160675 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 04:21:06 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160675 First, I am 71 years (young), not a Cougar, but not ready for the grave. I have maintained my health, figure and zest for life. These 4 questions were extremely insightful and truly spoke to me.
I had a 27 year marriage, ended in divorce because of 3 of the “basics” you outlined and explained, were not met. Dated after healing from that experience, decided to go for more physical attraction, emotional nurturing , lifestyle compatibility–didn’t worry about 5-10 year goals figuring if the first three requirements were met, the future would be something we would grow into. (We were in our early 50’s).
It was wonderful and those 10 years following were the best I ever had! But it was not to last.
At this time in life, “prior lives (children) for each of us” surfaced and ended the Love Story. Now in my 60’s to present time, I am finding it difficult to meet men that light a “spark”physically and those that do don’t have a lifestyle or interests compatible with mine, seem to be indifferent and “ghosty”.
Finding a man that has the energy, intellectual curiosity, sexuality, and general human courtesy is lacking.
Hope springs eternal and perhaps I will find someone. Just want to thank you and your colleagues for trying to fill in the gaps for the younger generation on human psychology–something I believe should be taught in high school next to reproductive functions. Getting along in life and finding a suitable partner, does have some rules and requirements to meet to be more successful. Our divorce and suicide rates tells us something is missing!

]]> By: Lauren https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160666 Sun, 23 Jan 2022 22:57:09 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160666 In reply to Lauren.

When I say ‘not the one for me’ of course I know that I don’t know him well enough to know yet. I meant more the right kind of connection wasn’t there for me to want to pursue further.

]]> By: Lauren https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160663 Sun, 23 Jan 2022 22:09:31 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160663 Hi Matthew

Regarding your first point in this video; I recently had a first date with a guy. Our values seemed to align and he genuinely seemed a wonderful person but there was no sexual chemistry and I wasn’t attracted to him. I was hoping for just a little bit of spark to entice me into a second date but it didn’t come and so I declined a second date with him. I find it difficult to move past a first date if there’s not a sign of at least some chemistry to base something off. I tend to rely on my gut instinct when dating, which on this occasion said he wasn’t the one for me. My gut instinct has never failed me in the past and so having listened to this video and specifically point one, how do I know when I’m being too fussy?

]]> By: Adelyne https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160656 Sun, 23 Jan 2022 17:58:21 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160656 A friend I fell in love with (which he wanted me to do…) started going out with someone else telling me we have to enjoy the present moment and I was too late to realise my feelings. And who cares if his current relationship doesn’t last as long as he hoped. Today he is happy with it.

Same guy who told me he dreams of having his own family (which was a thing we discussed a lot about)

Thank you for this video, it confirm I was not totally wrong when I was asking myself if I should pursue a relationship with him.

]]> By: Katarina https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160655 Sun, 23 Jan 2022 17:09:49 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160655 Very interesting, meaningful insights. Specially the first and the last one! If I knew before!….

]]> By: Katherine https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160652 Sun, 23 Jan 2022 15:40:12 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160652 I really miss the videos you used to do. They were fun and really got the message across in a way that stuck with me. I’m not enjoying watching your podcasts. Honestly, they’re boring and I just shut it off. If I want to hear your podcast I can always listen to it, but my vote is BRING THE FUNNY HUMOROUS VIDEOS BACK!

]]> By: Julie MacKenzie https://matthewhussey.com/blog/is-he-right-for-you-find-out-with-these-4-questions/#comment-1160651 Sun, 23 Jan 2022 15:28:51 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45216#comment-1160651 Great topic. Thanks for sharing this with us.

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