Comments on: Does THIS Count as Micro-Cheating on Your Partner? https://matthewhussey.com/blog/does-this-count-as-micro-cheating-on-your-partner-2/ Have The Love Life You Want Mon, 15 Apr 2024 23:16:03 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: VLS https://matthewhussey.com/blog/does-this-count-as-micro-cheating-on-your-partner-2/#comment-1212472 Mon, 15 Apr 2024 23:16:03 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45784#comment-1212472 So great to hear two gentlemen providing this type of insight and empathy. Often you hear men say things like “boys will be boys” and “you should be the ‘cool’ girl” that looks beyond that” when there are thousands of women who struggle with the three issues you raised in this post 1) Inappropriate relationships with women, 2) Lingering feelings/or too frequent communications with exes and 3) Following hundreds of attractive women/influencers on social media. You rarely find men that see this as disrespectful and trampling on someones values, standards and boundaries. I know many confident, attractive and high-value women that feel bad about themselves when they see that their SOs follow women that don’t resemble them or who don’t portray a realistic view of real women. Worst yet when they see their SOs following exes, commenting and liking their posts it feels like an absolute betrayal. I wish men that do this understood how it makes women feel and the incredible turn off it is to their partners. I often wonder what it would do to their self esteems if their partners acted in this way. Would they be the “cool guy?” Thank you for showing that men can be respectful, thoughtful and caring about the feelings of their partners and for not normalizing and blaming women for feeling the way they do about these topics. Truly refreshing!

]]> By: Yvonne Speck https://matthewhussey.com/blog/does-this-count-as-micro-cheating-on-your-partner-2/#comment-1161438 Tue, 08 Feb 2022 04:19:49 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45784#comment-1161438 In reply to Melinda Purdy.

Please leave this guy. There’s nothing loyal about him.

]]> By: Melinda Purdy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/does-this-count-as-micro-cheating-on-your-partner-2/#comment-1161410 Mon, 07 Feb 2022 15:15:04 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45784#comment-1161410 The guy i have been in a relationship for 4 years he keeps going to dating sights and tries to get them into conversations then he gives them his photos and phone number. Then I spent the whole day with him for his birthday. He posts that no one acknowledged his birthday. The has been telling other women he loves them. I have told him it is over and he needs to move out. But he won’t leave he says he is not cheating he is loyal.

]]> By: Pauline Sherwin https://matthewhussey.com/blog/does-this-count-as-micro-cheating-on-your-partner-2/#comment-1161381 Sun, 06 Feb 2022 19:56:16 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45784#comment-1161381 Sooo great to listen to. You are incredibly inciteful.

]]> By: Sidney https://matthewhussey.com/blog/does-this-count-as-micro-cheating-on-your-partner-2/#comment-1161371 Sun, 06 Feb 2022 16:06:18 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=45784#comment-1161371 Walk away now. He is obviously still hitting on her while romancing you. How fair is that to you? It’s not.

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