Comments on: Are They Emotionally Unavailable? DON’T CHASE, Do THIS! https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/ Have The Love Life You Want Tue, 23 Jul 2024 13:20:31 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: cv ksa https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1220587 Tue, 23 Jul 2024 13:20:31 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1220587 cv ksa: Your writing is always so insightful—thank you for sharing!

]]> By: liz https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210884 Mon, 25 Mar 2024 01:50:56 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210884 In reply to Julie Bemis.

Thank you Julie for this, it helps me realize the ‘addictive feeling’ that we get from relationships is similar to drug and alcohol withdrawals and we can reassure ourselves that ‘this too will pass’ and we are looking for our amazing relationships and these commitment phobic men will not do! Thank you for sharing! And good for you for saying NO!

]]> By: Alice Jones https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210791 Sat, 23 Mar 2024 14:01:57 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210791 In reply to Mel.

Mel you’re worth more than someone’s partial attention….you’re valuable your time is limited you won’t get that time back. Don’t squander it on someone who isn’t prepared to make a commitment or at least be open about what they are willing to give. You’re the navigator of your own relationship you need to be in the front seat driving to your destination.. you choose where you are going and who is going to sit with you and share this once in a lifetimes journey of discovery…enjoy the ride don’t let anyone else deter you from your own desires and dreams . You choose who is going to share that journey with you

]]> By: Alice Jones https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210790 Sat, 23 Mar 2024 13:59:17 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210790 In reply to Mel.

Mel you’re worth more than someone’s partial attention….you’re valuable your time is limited you won’t get that time back. Don’t squander it on someone who isn’t prepared to make a commitment or at least be open about what they are willing to give. You’re the navigator of your own relationship you need to be in the front seat driving to your destination.. you choose where you are going and who is going to sit with you and share this once in a lifetimes journey of discovery…enjoy the ride don’t let anyone else deter you from your own desires and dreams.

]]> By: Julie Bemis https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210693 Fri, 22 Mar 2024 13:56:58 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210693 I was seeing a guy for two months, he hit me up regularly we were going on dates and on our third date he mentioned he’d need to go at his own pace into a relationship because he was damaged by his last relationship. I said okay, no pressure. We were having amazing sex and I kept quiet about things for 6 more dates then I finally asked him what he was looking for, he said “I don’t know.” I was crushed. I left the bedroom and made myself some tea then I came back and told him “my love and kindness is unconditional but my body is not.” Then he got vulnerable and told me he was married before and he didn’t want to be in a relationship again. Then he asked me if he could give me an answer in a couple days I said no problem. Then he called me a couple days later and said he’s not ready, I told him “That’s fine, it seems like we want different things, and there were girls out there that only want casual sex. I am not one of them.” Then I told him that he’s a nice guy and we could be friends but to not hit me up for a hookup, he agreed. I really related to this video with the addiction. It’s been a week and I’m still having withdrawals from him. I’m a sober alcoholic and it’s equally as painful emotionally as kicking alcohol and drugs. Last night I kept waking up from dreams about this person and the scary part is, I’m not sure how much I even liked him, but now that he opened up the abandonment wound I’m obsessed with him. All I can focus on is getting him back. It’s so sad. Anyway I know just like my alcoholism, withdrawals take time. I’m proud of myself for ending it before I got hurt more because that could’ve been a threat to my sobriety. I’m just sad right now. Thank you for this video couldn’t have came at a better time.

]]> By: elma angioletta m.nugpo https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210449 Tue, 19 Mar 2024 08:43:59 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210449 Nice.i am interested

]]> By: Mel https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210291 Sun, 17 Mar 2024 21:28:00 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210291 Oh wow. This hit me hard. It’s been a crazy 1year and half. Having split from my ex but still staying in their life. We do everything together. Me in hopes of winning them back and showing my worth. But everything you said shows me… I’ve trauma bonded. They’re so quick ro reject or not respond to me or talk. Especially when they go away on month long jobs. When they’re back. I’m still around and here. And get that kick again and relief. I really have been trying to stop it. But like you say I need to make changes. I love them but I think it’s not real love anymore, it’s love of what we were in my head. Which never existed. I’m a Rollercoaster of every feeling about this. Not sure how go get out of it without hurting myself and that’s what I’m scared of. Cause I’ve been so depressed again as they’ve left and now I’m nothing to them again.

]]> By: Alison https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210289 Sun, 17 Mar 2024 20:28:50 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210289 “We can get into a cycle where we consistently confuse the anxiety that someone makes us feel with love and passion.” (M. Hussey)

Matt – that one sentence is so filled with clarity. Thank you for that. I’m very much looking forward to the LiveLifeReset.

]]> By: Selma T Baptista https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210282 Sun, 17 Mar 2024 19:07:29 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210282 I’m not afraid anymore, Matt you said it’s all about taking risks, I accepted a guy and I’m in a relationship right now. Well am shocked,but happy, .but it’s happening. All thanks to you Matt and family.

]]> By: Selma T Baptista https://matthewhussey.com/blog/are-they-emotionally-unavailable/#comment-1210281 Sun, 17 Mar 2024 19:05:38 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=91062#comment-1210281 I’m not afraid anymore, Matt said it’s all about taking risks, I accepted a guy and I’m in a relationship right now. Well am shocked,but happy, .but it’s happening. All thanks to you Matt and family.

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